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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 83833" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>welcome. So sorry you need to be here with us. I recommend <a href="http://www.loveandlogic.com" target="_blank">http://www.loveandlogic.com</a> They ahve lots of free downloads and the books are availablee online and in bookstores. This book helped husband & I get on the same page. It gave us a plan.</p><p></p><p>Social workeer sounds like a good influence. Call her and get her back. It sounds like do to get is a very good plan. You are not required to do anything more than make sure he has food (not his fave food, or even food he likes, jsut food), a roof over his head, a place to sleep, and clothes. Clothes do not have to be things he likes. Bed should be a mattress on the floor because then he doesn't have the space under the bed to hide stuff.</p><p></p><p>If it were my kid I would go through his room on a regular but not predictable schedule. Not the same day of the week, just sometime in the week. He sounds very motivated to do the worst things he can.</p><p></p><p>Has he started being violent with you or others in the family? Pets?? Sometimes pets can have a very calming influence, but you have to be absolutely sure he isnot hurting a pet. Every time he gets violent CALL THE POLICE. Not sure if you have other children, but it is important to send the message that violence will not be tolerated.</p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 83833, member: 1233"] welcome. So sorry you need to be here with us. I recommend [url]http://www.loveandlogic.com[/url] They ahve lots of free downloads and the books are availablee online and in bookstores. This book helped husband & I get on the same page. It gave us a plan. Social workeer sounds like a good influence. Call her and get her back. It sounds like do to get is a very good plan. You are not required to do anything more than make sure he has food (not his fave food, or even food he likes, jsut food), a roof over his head, a place to sleep, and clothes. Clothes do not have to be things he likes. Bed should be a mattress on the floor because then he doesn't have the space under the bed to hide stuff. If it were my kid I would go through his room on a regular but not predictable schedule. Not the same day of the week, just sometime in the week. He sounds very motivated to do the worst things he can. Has he started being violent with you or others in the family? Pets?? Sometimes pets can have a very calming influence, but you have to be absolutely sure he isnot hurting a pet. Every time he gets violent CALL THE POLICE. Not sure if you have other children, but it is important to send the message that violence will not be tolerated. Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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