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<blockquote data-quote="Sister's Keeper" data-source="post: 699099" data-attributes="member: 20051"><p>You can't make him do anything. All you can do is set your limits and stick to it.</p><p></p><p>Sit him down, tell him, "I can't live this way, so you will either have to do X, Y, and Z by such-and-such a date or move out." and stick to it. </p><p></p><p>You will have to check the tenancy law in your state, because you may have to go through formal eviction proceedings to get him out, but once you make the decision, you have to stick with it. Once legal eviction proceedings are completed you can have the sheriffs remove him. Change the locks. Once he is removed and it is no longer his residence if he returns without your permission it is a crime.</p><p></p><p>Again, if he is destructive of your property, threatening, or violent in any way call the police. Tell them you are afraid of him and you want a protective order. That will get him out quickly.</p><p></p><p>You can't make him change, you can't make him do right. Only he can decide that is what he wants to do. All you can do is make it difficult for him to keep living like he does.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sister's Keeper, post: 699099, member: 20051"] You can't make him do anything. All you can do is set your limits and stick to it. Sit him down, tell him, "I can't live this way, so you will either have to do X, Y, and Z by such-and-such a date or move out." and stick to it. You will have to check the tenancy law in your state, because you may have to go through formal eviction proceedings to get him out, but once you make the decision, you have to stick with it. Once legal eviction proceedings are completed you can have the sheriffs remove him. Change the locks. Once he is removed and it is no longer his residence if he returns without your permission it is a crime. Again, if he is destructive of your property, threatening, or violent in any way call the police. Tell them you are afraid of him and you want a protective order. That will get him out quickly. You can't make him change, you can't make him do right. Only he can decide that is what he wants to do. All you can do is make it difficult for him to keep living like he does. [/QUOTE]
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