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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 706890" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Only you can change things. But you don't seem like you will so things will stay the same. Your wife and stepson are not going to change anytime soon so...If you don't change your situation, this may be your life forever...it is up to you. Your wife is as sick as your son. They are addicts. its not fun to live with addicts. It's nightmares and drama.</p><p></p><p> Neither seems inclined to get sober. Maybe the reason this is happening is a test of what you will do about it. Just wishing things were different isn't taking action and changes nothing. At least start going to AL Anon regularly and admit to yourself that your wife is also an addict, not just step son. Or move out with your son. Or this fiction novel will stay your reality. And it sounds awful.</p><p></p><p>If they won't change you must. Or the next thirty years could be this.</p><p></p><p>People make difficult decisions every day. Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 706890, member: 1550"] Only you can change things. But you don't seem like you will so things will stay the same. Your wife and stepson are not going to change anytime soon so...If you don't change your situation, this may be your life forever...it is up to you. Your wife is as sick as your son. They are addicts. its not fun to live with addicts. It's nightmares and drama. Neither seems inclined to get sober. Maybe the reason this is happening is a test of what you will do about it. Just wishing things were different isn't taking action and changes nothing. At least start going to AL Anon regularly and admit to yourself that your wife is also an addict, not just step son. Or move out with your son. Or this fiction novel will stay your reality. And it sounds awful. If they won't change you must. Or the next thirty years could be this. People make difficult decisions every day. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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