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<blockquote data-quote="WannabeAgoodFather" data-source="post: 711918" data-attributes="member: 21165"><p>Well... as everyone expected, nothing really happens as everyone is so unhappy and youngest one is so excited about going to one of the most prestige schools. He will go to Seoul for the whole Summer then will be gone.</p><p></p><p>The toxic house somehow still functions and moves like a snail. I finally said (confronted) something where I have not for a while. I said watching your spouse passing out in bed 3 times a week isn't pleasant and waking up in the morning with smell of alcohol in the room is really difficult to handle. She got mad and went out during the day. To be honest, I was numb and did not feel anything. Que sera sera...</p><p></p><p>Problem step son, of course got away with the ultimatum that mother gave him... "If you do not attend EMT course, you will have to move out" He said he'd attend but kept putting it off. I knew from the beginning he had no intention to attend. As time came, he threw out the "depression card with cry" and mother of course bought it again. He then said he is so miserable in CA and wants to move to FL. What a great idea???? He says he wants a degree and whole 9 yards... Do I believe any of these? Absolutely not. However, moving to FL came out of his mouth first so we are doing it. He gave 2 weeks notice to his employer last Friday. Mother told him to mark his target day to move on the calendar in the kitchen. He will be gone in May. Otherwise, I am going to police to file an eviction process as I told my sister in law.</p><p></p><p>With 10000000 problems I am having, at least this will be a starting point. I do not even care about my life. I am so sick of the whole situation and nothing is going my way. I do not blame anyone but myself to put everything like this. My own kids, who are the worst on materialistic things that their mother and I were once able to provide, doesn't see anything great in their eyes coming from me anymore so I feel abandoned. Mother wins with money.... One side can afford a few thousand dollar suit for prom where my side can only afford little things.. Maybe a pair of socks? I am not bitter. I gave away every single penny I had to get the custodies of 2 children, suffered financially but am proud for what I did.</p><p></p><p>My father finished 8 rounds of chemo and trying to recover now. Every corner I look, there is an issue. Nothing is in the right place. Work is absolutely horrifying so I am constantly looking for a better place. I really hope this one position I applied for will respond. I would like to go back to Seoul and spend some time with my parents... It is not escaping but I need to gain some control plus sanity for myself. Nothing scares me anymore...</p><p></p><p>Hope the pathological lying, pot head stepson moves out so that I could breath a little better for my health now. I have tried to teach, give help and expected mother to be a big part but absolutely nothing has worked. It is depressing, disgusting and ugly how things are. Well, who knows what will happen?</p><p>Stay tuned everyone...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WannabeAgoodFather, post: 711918, member: 21165"] Well... as everyone expected, nothing really happens as everyone is so unhappy and youngest one is so excited about going to one of the most prestige schools. He will go to Seoul for the whole Summer then will be gone. The toxic house somehow still functions and moves like a snail. I finally said (confronted) something where I have not for a while. I said watching your spouse passing out in bed 3 times a week isn't pleasant and waking up in the morning with smell of alcohol in the room is really difficult to handle. She got mad and went out during the day. To be honest, I was numb and did not feel anything. Que sera sera... Problem step son, of course got away with the ultimatum that mother gave him... "If you do not attend EMT course, you will have to move out" He said he'd attend but kept putting it off. I knew from the beginning he had no intention to attend. As time came, he threw out the "depression card with cry" and mother of course bought it again. He then said he is so miserable in CA and wants to move to FL. What a great idea???? He says he wants a degree and whole 9 yards... Do I believe any of these? Absolutely not. However, moving to FL came out of his mouth first so we are doing it. He gave 2 weeks notice to his employer last Friday. Mother told him to mark his target day to move on the calendar in the kitchen. He will be gone in May. Otherwise, I am going to police to file an eviction process as I told my sister in law. With 10000000 problems I am having, at least this will be a starting point. I do not even care about my life. I am so sick of the whole situation and nothing is going my way. I do not blame anyone but myself to put everything like this. My own kids, who are the worst on materialistic things that their mother and I were once able to provide, doesn't see anything great in their eyes coming from me anymore so I feel abandoned. Mother wins with money.... One side can afford a few thousand dollar suit for prom where my side can only afford little things.. Maybe a pair of socks? I am not bitter. I gave away every single penny I had to get the custodies of 2 children, suffered financially but am proud for what I did. My father finished 8 rounds of chemo and trying to recover now. Every corner I look, there is an issue. Nothing is in the right place. Work is absolutely horrifying so I am constantly looking for a better place. I really hope this one position I applied for will respond. I would like to go back to Seoul and spend some time with my parents... It is not escaping but I need to gain some control plus sanity for myself. Nothing scares me anymore... Hope the pathological lying, pot head stepson moves out so that I could breath a little better for my health now. I have tried to teach, give help and expected mother to be a big part but absolutely nothing has worked. It is depressing, disgusting and ugly how things are. Well, who knows what will happen? Stay tuned everyone... [/QUOTE]
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