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<blockquote data-quote="WannabeAgoodFather" data-source="post: 713506" data-attributes="member: 21165"><p>Updates...</p><p></p><p>Stepson arrived in Tampa well... I happened to looked at his text messages with his mother. Even the day before he left, he asked his mother if she had money to give him... I made sure our bank account had "0" balance so that she could not have given him any... Mother kept on texting him, demanding things like get a job first, enroll in school and whole nine yards.. There is not much positive reply from him. He always says yes or I will do it tomorrow... Who knows what is really happening. My wife again asked me to put him under our health insurance again for the second time via text and I did not even reply. If she said to me in person, I know I would have said "He could buy his own insurance. Why would I put him back to my plan where I know he will get Xanax or klonopin and then snort them?" Thank God it did not go there. I sent an email to one of my wife's sisters telling her about the health insurance and I wouldn't do it hoping everyone understands... I am not going to help an enabling mother. He is on his own and hopefully knows that he is not coming back all the way to California from Florida again. Do I think he hit the bottom and realizes the current situation? I really doubt that. I know for sure he will try to make his mother feel horrible but I am not budging a step. My life, my happiness and our marriage are all important and just one person ruining it cannot be tolerated. I may have lost my stepson forever, but tried to save my marriage and moving things forward. Youngest one is graduating tomorrow and we will have our house by ourselves and animals only. I hope we could patch things up and work on our relationship. Next project is her drinking which she is 100% aware of and trying to get better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WannabeAgoodFather, post: 713506, member: 21165"] Updates... Stepson arrived in Tampa well... I happened to looked at his text messages with his mother. Even the day before he left, he asked his mother if she had money to give him... I made sure our bank account had "0" balance so that she could not have given him any... Mother kept on texting him, demanding things like get a job first, enroll in school and whole nine yards.. There is not much positive reply from him. He always says yes or I will do it tomorrow... Who knows what is really happening. My wife again asked me to put him under our health insurance again for the second time via text and I did not even reply. If she said to me in person, I know I would have said "He could buy his own insurance. Why would I put him back to my plan where I know he will get Xanax or klonopin and then snort them?" Thank God it did not go there. I sent an email to one of my wife's sisters telling her about the health insurance and I wouldn't do it hoping everyone understands... I am not going to help an enabling mother. He is on his own and hopefully knows that he is not coming back all the way to California from Florida again. Do I think he hit the bottom and realizes the current situation? I really doubt that. I know for sure he will try to make his mother feel horrible but I am not budging a step. My life, my happiness and our marriage are all important and just one person ruining it cannot be tolerated. I may have lost my stepson forever, but tried to save my marriage and moving things forward. Youngest one is graduating tomorrow and we will have our house by ourselves and animals only. I hope we could patch things up and work on our relationship. Next project is her drinking which she is 100% aware of and trying to get better. [/QUOTE]
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