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<blockquote data-quote="theotherwhistler" data-source="post: 760403" data-attributes="member: 27440"><p>Thank you....I think you are right. I thought about alanon, but she isn't a practicing alcholic at least not now. So I always feel like a fraud in alanon. But you think it's OK? </p><p></p><p>And what about no contact? What do you think? I know she is deeply hurting inside, I know she will not contact me first, let alone apologize. So if I don't initiate it , it will be no contact. And she will be alone with her pain. I love what you said here: "They will not stop it. It serves them." I think it lessens her pain to be rotten to me. So as a loving mother should I do this again? When I say this out loud, I hear how sick it is. But how can I help her? </p><p></p><p>Yes her relationship is her business, but I am pretty sure, this will not end well... at all. Her little world that she has built the past 3 years is fragile...one month of non payment of rent and it will collapse. </p><p></p><p>When this has happened in the past, she has really spun all the way down...to sleeping by the river. To hallucinations.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="theotherwhistler, post: 760403, member: 27440"] Thank you....I think you are right. I thought about alanon, but she isn't a practicing alcholic at least not now. So I always feel like a fraud in alanon. But you think it's OK? And what about no contact? What do you think? I know she is deeply hurting inside, I know she will not contact me first, let alone apologize. So if I don't initiate it , it will be no contact. And she will be alone with her pain. I love what you said here: "They will not stop it. It serves them." I think it lessens her pain to be rotten to me. So as a loving mother should I do this again? When I say this out loud, I hear how sick it is. But how can I help her? Yes her relationship is her business, but I am pretty sure, this will not end well... at all. Her little world that she has built the past 3 years is fragile...one month of non payment of rent and it will collapse. When this has happened in the past, she has really spun all the way down...to sleeping by the river. To hallucinations. [/QUOTE]
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