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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 713080" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>For how long does he want to come home? He is 21. Do you want him on your couch or to be paying his rent at 31? That would be bad for you and him.</p><p></p><p>You are doing right. At 21 most adult kuds are moving out. They want independence. If they dont, there is often the wish to stay young and do what they want on your dime. Including using drugs.</p><p></p><p>I feel young adults like these often say"college" just to get a ride home or money or brownie points. Its like when they say "I have depression so I use meth." They want to make us feel soft towards them and help them. College, depression, no food...trigger words for us, often untrue. Usually untrue.</p><p></p><p>College requires discipline that these adults dont have. Get sober first.</p><p></p><p>Jmo.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 713080, member: 1550"] For how long does he want to come home? He is 21. Do you want him on your couch or to be paying his rent at 31? That would be bad for you and him. You are doing right. At 21 most adult kuds are moving out. They want independence. If they dont, there is often the wish to stay young and do what they want on your dime. Including using drugs. I feel young adults like these often say"college" just to get a ride home or money or brownie points. Its like when they say "I have depression so I use meth." They want to make us feel soft towards them and help them. College, depression, no food...trigger words for us, often untrue. Usually untrue. College requires discipline that these adults dont have. Get sober first. Jmo. [/QUOTE]
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