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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 712213" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Is your son using meth? Maybe he is and you dont know it. Meth causes psychosis. I dont think cannibus does. Meth also causes anger. It is a seriously dangerous drug. We dont know what our kids really use.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, because of his drug use, unwillingness to stop and your fear of him, i would (and did with my daughter) cut the strings and the Bank of Mom unless you are very rich and also dont care if your money frees him up so he can buy whatever drugs he buys.</p><p></p><p>If your grandchildren are with the mother perhaps get closer to her and try to have a relationship with them in spite of your son. Your son does not appreciate your kindness. He is too steeped in his addiction. Unless he was diagnosed with a mood disorder before the drug use started, you dont know if he actually has mental illness or is this way due to drugs.</p><p></p><p>I hope you can find peace in your life regardless of the bad behavior of your adult son. Trust me, even homeless he will be resourceful and find people to take him in for a while and show him where to go for food etc..our grown drug users are very street smart. They know how to survive and the harshness of drug life without your help can motivate them to quit using. If you are not there they are much more apt to turn their lives around. My daughter changed fast after she was cut off without a dime and shown the door. It was one of the hardest, saddest things I ever did...but it worked for her</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 712213, member: 1550"] Is your son using meth? Maybe he is and you dont know it. Meth causes psychosis. I dont think cannibus does. Meth also causes anger. It is a seriously dangerous drug. We dont know what our kids really use. At any rate, because of his drug use, unwillingness to stop and your fear of him, i would (and did with my daughter) cut the strings and the Bank of Mom unless you are very rich and also dont care if your money frees him up so he can buy whatever drugs he buys. If your grandchildren are with the mother perhaps get closer to her and try to have a relationship with them in spite of your son. Your son does not appreciate your kindness. He is too steeped in his addiction. Unless he was diagnosed with a mood disorder before the drug use started, you dont know if he actually has mental illness or is this way due to drugs. I hope you can find peace in your life regardless of the bad behavior of your adult son. Trust me, even homeless he will be resourceful and find people to take him in for a while and show him where to go for food etc..our grown drug users are very street smart. They know how to survive and the harshness of drug life without your help can motivate them to quit using. If you are not there they are much more apt to turn their lives around. My daughter changed fast after she was cut off without a dime and shown the door. It was one of the hardest, saddest things I ever did...but it worked for her [/QUOTE]
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