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<blockquote data-quote="Roxona" data-source="post: 687939" data-attributes="member: 19076"><p>I'd definitely stand my ground and protect my boundaries if I was in this situation. My SD26 pulled something like this on me early on in my relationship with her father. She had just moved in with her boyfriend and maybe a month later I got a message that she was going to physically hurt him. I like her boyfriend. He's a good guy, and I didn't want to see him get hurt. She wasn't going to move back in with her Dad because J and I had moved in and there wasn't a room for her anymore. Sooo, I got her a part-time job through a friend and told her she could live at my second house for $300 per month (which was reasonably based on what she was making at the part-time job). I also told her if she took two classes at the community college, I would pay all the utilities. She moved in, and signed up for two classes....but stopped going to work and didn't call in...and then wasn't going to class. She called me one day (not even within 30 days of moving in) and told me that they had fired her and that she couldn't make the rent payment, and "what are you going to do about it?!" I told her I wasn't going to do anything about it, but rent was due on the first, and I suggested she start looking for another job. She later told her dad that she didn't see how me making her pay $300 per month for rent was "helping" her. </p><p></p><p>She quickly moved in with her mom in another state...it was for the best.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Roxona, post: 687939, member: 19076"] I'd definitely stand my ground and protect my boundaries if I was in this situation. My SD26 pulled something like this on me early on in my relationship with her father. She had just moved in with her boyfriend and maybe a month later I got a message that she was going to physically hurt him. I like her boyfriend. He's a good guy, and I didn't want to see him get hurt. She wasn't going to move back in with her Dad because J and I had moved in and there wasn't a room for her anymore. Sooo, I got her a part-time job through a friend and told her she could live at my second house for $300 per month (which was reasonably based on what she was making at the part-time job). I also told her if she took two classes at the community college, I would pay all the utilities. She moved in, and signed up for two classes....but stopped going to work and didn't call in...and then wasn't going to class. She called me one day (not even within 30 days of moving in) and told me that they had fired her and that she couldn't make the rent payment, and "what are you going to do about it?!" I told her I wasn't going to do anything about it, but rent was due on the first, and I suggested she start looking for another job. She later told her dad that she didn't see how me making her pay $300 per month for rent was "helping" her. She quickly moved in with her mom in another state...it was for the best. [/QUOTE]
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