Hi, I cant believe I found this forum, after reading some of the threads I realize I am not alone, I am a mother of 3 adult children 2 daughters ages 21, and almost 20 and an 18 year old son. My 21 year old is bi-polar and refused to take her medications once she turned 18. She has been violent with me which is why she cannot live with me, when she was 12 she accused my now ex-husband and father of my other 2 children of touching her and he went through a serious investigation and polygraphs and was never found guilty. She also came out as a lesbian when she was 14 (which I was ok with) and now has a boyfriend who she hits, she smokes pot and as far as I know that's the only drug she uses, she cant keep a job and every single place she has lived she has gotten kicked out of. Her siblings love her but don't want to be around her, due to her erratic behavior, I love her but it has gotten to the point when she calls I dread answering the phone. It is getting bad and it is causing problems in my marriage. She loves to use guilt with me. I had been a single mom for a long time until I remarried and had to work a lot when they were growing up. I am at the end of my rope...
