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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 679219" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I believe (with dread and fear) and so does M that my son is bulimic. Every single time he is here (and eats) it seems he vomits, soon after he eats. And then returns to eat more.</p><p></p><p>He did it last night. I said to him, "I find vomit when you are here. Are you bulimic?" He comes up with an excuse. He does not at all seem phased. I said, "I worry because of your liver." He blows it off.</p><p></p><p>He left this morning before we got up. He took without asking, a bicycle, we bought for M. It is new. He has lost dozens of bicycles because he could care less about locking them. He had no right to "take" this bike.</p><p></p><p>We know he will put all responsibility on us, citing all of the "responsible" things that he did, citing how he "did not want to wake us," that these are things that "I criticize him about." He would act the martyr. He was trying to do the right thing (by taking a bike that was not his, without asking) and he can never please mean old Mom.</p><p></p><p>M will tell hi: We are not responsible for your doing or not doing what you need to do for himself. M will not accept his BS.</p><p></p><p>I dread him coming back. His pack and sleeping bag are here. He must come back, so that he can have something to sleep with.</p><p></p><p>Can I say again how much I dread it?</p><p></p><p>Honestly, I thought last night, I want to completely insulate myself from him. M said I cannot. I want to. I really do. Now adding to everything is the worry about Bulimia.</p><p></p><p>I wrote down on a paper the phone numbers and addresses for Section 8, public housing for each of the 4 counties in which he has lived in the past year or has ties. They recommend applying in multiple areas because of the waiting lists. I wrote down, Mental Health Department, Adult services. What more can I do? He either saves himself or he does not.</p><p></p><p>M (and my son) think I am negative. M wants me to think from hope. To have hope. To look at the half full, not empty. What is my problem? Is it FOO?</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 679219, member: 18958"] I believe (with dread and fear) and so does M that my son is bulimic. Every single time he is here (and eats) it seems he vomits, soon after he eats. And then returns to eat more. He did it last night. I said to him, "I find vomit when you are here. Are you bulimic?" He comes up with an excuse. He does not at all seem phased. I said, "I worry because of your liver." He blows it off. He left this morning before we got up. He took without asking, a bicycle, we bought for M. It is new. He has lost dozens of bicycles because he could care less about locking them. He had no right to "take" this bike. We know he will put all responsibility on us, citing all of the "responsible" things that he did, citing how he "did not want to wake us," that these are things that "I criticize him about." He would act the martyr. He was trying to do the right thing (by taking a bike that was not his, without asking) and he can never please mean old Mom. M will tell hi: We are not responsible for your doing or not doing what you need to do for himself. M will not accept his BS. I dread him coming back. His pack and sleeping bag are here. He must come back, so that he can have something to sleep with. Can I say again how much I dread it? Honestly, I thought last night, I want to completely insulate myself from him. M said I cannot. I want to. I really do. Now adding to everything is the worry about Bulimia. I wrote down on a paper the phone numbers and addresses for Section 8, public housing for each of the 4 counties in which he has lived in the past year or has ties. They recommend applying in multiple areas because of the waiting lists. I wrote down, Mental Health Department, Adult services. What more can I do? He either saves himself or he does not. M (and my son) think I am negative. M wants me to think from hope. To have hope. To look at the half full, not empty. What is my problem? Is it FOO? COPA [/QUOTE]
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