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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 679242" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I feel embarrassed, Nomad. Especially with the death of KLMNO in our hearts and minds.</p><p></p><p>I am trying hard on the FOO threads to understand why I abandon myself and trash myself when there are difficult interactions or disappointments with my son.</p><p></p><p>While I am better, greatly better, when he is not around me, I am very much afflicted when he is. He treats us so badly. I feel abused by him.</p><p></p><p>I am the parent, and I feel abused by my own child. I become enraged and then I turn the anger against myself. It is not a dynamic I am proud of.</p><p> I agree with you.</p><p></p><p>M and I have for a long time been talking about moving across country for awhile, but we keep taking on more responsibilities.</p><p></p><p>I think I will for now make a very strict boundary. I will make sure that I observe it. I will adopt some practices of self-care. I will report back on them here.</p><p></p><p>I have an ulcer I think for which I see a doctor on Thursday. I have to step up. I know that.</p><p></p><p>I will try to find a way to take myself and my welfare more seriously.</p><p></p><p>Thank you.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 679242, member: 18958"] I feel embarrassed, Nomad. Especially with the death of KLMNO in our hearts and minds. I am trying hard on the FOO threads to understand why I abandon myself and trash myself when there are difficult interactions or disappointments with my son. While I am better, greatly better, when he is not around me, I am very much afflicted when he is. He treats us so badly. I feel abused by him. I am the parent, and I feel abused by my own child. I become enraged and then I turn the anger against myself. It is not a dynamic I am proud of. I agree with you. M and I have for a long time been talking about moving across country for awhile, but we keep taking on more responsibilities. I think I will for now make a very strict boundary. I will make sure that I observe it. I will adopt some practices of self-care. I will report back on them here. I have an ulcer I think for which I see a doctor on Thursday. I have to step up. I know that. I will try to find a way to take myself and my welfare more seriously. Thank you. COPA [/QUOTE]
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