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Now he's trying to make false accusations to the judge
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 728805" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Gabi. You are in an impossible situation. The way the situation is set up and the rules put you in handcuffs with a gag tied to the train tracks...while trying to parent.</p><p></p><p>Your son seems empowered by your helplessness. To me the doctors are like a Greek chorus undermining you further. Nobody. I mean nobody could do this right.</p><p></p><p>I will tell you what I think: the rules need to be changed. Somehow you need to get your power back. Your son is working the system. Taking control of the whole game. To his peril. He must know you cannot or will not follow up with your threats.</p><p></p><p>A disempowered parent cannot help a child heal. We have all been there.</p><p></p><p>I think I might send him back to the hospital if only to buy time to come up with a plan. The doctors need to help you. Clearly the situation is volatile. He is not safe unless he is contained.</p><p></p><p>If only one of you had citizenship or residency in a country with more of a social services network and the means to relocate. I do not know what you are supposed to do when any response to curb him leads to his victimization. PS. I think you did exactly right in going to the judge.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 728805, member: 18958"] Gabi. You are in an impossible situation. The way the situation is set up and the rules put you in handcuffs with a gag tied to the train tracks...while trying to parent. Your son seems empowered by your helplessness. To me the doctors are like a Greek chorus undermining you further. Nobody. I mean nobody could do this right. I will tell you what I think: the rules need to be changed. Somehow you need to get your power back. Your son is working the system. Taking control of the whole game. To his peril. He must know you cannot or will not follow up with your threats. A disempowered parent cannot help a child heal. We have all been there. I think I might send him back to the hospital if only to buy time to come up with a plan. The doctors need to help you. Clearly the situation is volatile. He is not safe unless he is contained. If only one of you had citizenship or residency in a country with more of a social services network and the means to relocate. I do not know what you are supposed to do when any response to curb him leads to his victimization. PS. I think you did exactly right in going to the judge. [/QUOTE]
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