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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 728826" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I agree with Susie. You can see no good and likely outcome in your situation as it is, at least where you feel safe and not so anxious both about him and as importantly yourself. You are boxed in by the situation. You do not see a solution perhaps because there is no solution in the current guise. I think that is what Susie is saying. There feels to be no way out because there is no way out, where you are. Because there are not the resources for any person or family who is not rich.</p><p></p><p>You keep tasking yourself to solve this. Who could?</p><p></p><p>What needs to happen in order to access resources that would or could solve it? That is the question.</p><p></p><p>Is son's dad in the states or someplace where son could get real help? What about laying the cards on the table? Which is to say: what would be the options if son left where you are? Would dad help? Or could you and your husband bring him?</p><p></p><p>I read real concern in Susie's post. She is typically right on and does not overreact. And she has weathered a similar threat. Gabi. You might be in a kind of shock or denial. Is there the possibility of finding real support for yourself... With an eye to coming up with another more radical plan and pausing the parent training for right now if need be.</p><p></p><p>Your boy's real dad has got to step up here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 728826, member: 18958"] I agree with Susie. You can see no good and likely outcome in your situation as it is, at least where you feel safe and not so anxious both about him and as importantly yourself. You are boxed in by the situation. You do not see a solution perhaps because there is no solution in the current guise. I think that is what Susie is saying. There feels to be no way out because there is no way out, where you are. Because there are not the resources for any person or family who is not rich. You keep tasking yourself to solve this. Who could? What needs to happen in order to access resources that would or could solve it? That is the question. Is son's dad in the states or someplace where son could get real help? What about laying the cards on the table? Which is to say: what would be the options if son left where you are? Would dad help? Or could you and your husband bring him? I read real concern in Susie's post. She is typically right on and does not overreact. And she has weathered a similar threat. Gabi. You might be in a kind of shock or denial. Is there the possibility of finding real support for yourself... With an eye to coming up with another more radical plan and pausing the parent training for right now if need be. Your boy's real dad has got to step up here. [/QUOTE]
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