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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 728894" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I was very low key too. I'm sure many thought I didn't crack down enough on my kids. I did not spank, over punish or get crazy if my kids were disrespectful. At least I didnt until drugs came into play....not pot. Serious drugs. And Bart was always challenging. Bart went to therapy but maybe I let him get away with too much. Only after i felt threatened, when he was 20, did I make him leave. So I don't judge being permissive. I'm sure I was. It was just dumb luck that Sonic and Jumper were always so well behaved!</p><p></p><p>My issue here is that this kid tried to kill his mother in a cold, calculated way, not even in a rageful impulsive attack. Psychotic or not, it is unsafe to live with a child who would think about killing you then do it. That brings his behavior to a new level. It makes him unsafe.</p><p></p><p>My concern is that he will harm her or even kill her. We love our kids, but I don't believe we need to put our own lives in peril. There are people who parent from afar. I know a few who had to.</p><p></p><p>Everyone here takes our experiences with us when we give our two cents and all the posters decide what works for them and what doesn't. Your very intelligent and creative mind comforts many. You are very needed here...your take on things. You are appreciated.</p><p></p><p>I do hope you did not think I was judging you for not being strict as I would also be judging myself. I was very relaxed, maybe too much so, in my parenting style. I still am chill with my adult kids and am very laid back...don't stick my nose in their choices, praise them, even this wedding is 100 percent what my daughter wants to do. I am not that mommwho interfers or is bossy....not at all. But I think you did a very good, steller job with your son, Copa. He is difficult. You didn't hit him or belittle him. You loved him with all you have and he loves you.</p><p>No criticism from me on laid back parenting. I hope your son comes to appreciate sober living. You both deserve it. He seems to be improving. Kudos!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 728894, member: 1550"] I was very low key too. I'm sure many thought I didn't crack down enough on my kids. I did not spank, over punish or get crazy if my kids were disrespectful. At least I didnt until drugs came into play....not pot. Serious drugs. And Bart was always challenging. Bart went to therapy but maybe I let him get away with too much. Only after i felt threatened, when he was 20, did I make him leave. So I don't judge being permissive. I'm sure I was. It was just dumb luck that Sonic and Jumper were always so well behaved! My issue here is that this kid tried to kill his mother in a cold, calculated way, not even in a rageful impulsive attack. Psychotic or not, it is unsafe to live with a child who would think about killing you then do it. That brings his behavior to a new level. It makes him unsafe. My concern is that he will harm her or even kill her. We love our kids, but I don't believe we need to put our own lives in peril. There are people who parent from afar. I know a few who had to. Everyone here takes our experiences with us when we give our two cents and all the posters decide what works for them and what doesn't. Your very intelligent and creative mind comforts many. You are very needed here...your take on things. You are appreciated. I do hope you did not think I was judging you for not being strict as I would also be judging myself. I was very relaxed, maybe too much so, in my parenting style. I still am chill with my adult kids and am very laid back...don't stick my nose in their choices, praise them, even this wedding is 100 percent what my daughter wants to do. I am not that mommwho interfers or is bossy....not at all. But I think you did a very good, steller job with your son, Copa. He is difficult. You didn't hit him or belittle him. You loved him with all you have and he loves you. No criticism from me on laid back parenting. I hope your son comes to appreciate sober living. You both deserve it. He seems to be improving. Kudos! [/QUOTE]
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