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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 294682" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>I search her room all the time but if she does go off to college in three weeks I'm going to strip her room and make sure nothing has been left behind. She really has very little in her room, no speakers or cd player, just a bed, dresser, night stand and tv on a stand. </p><p></p><p>I do keep all our valuables locked up and I go through her pant pockets every night. She now takes her purse into the bathroom with her since she knows I checked her wallet and found the money. </p><p></p><p>I am pretty certain it's pot and that she used her contact from the community college to buy it and then sell it to two different guys. But for her to make $65 it must have been a big buy. I also think her boyfriend keeps the drugs in his car. I intend to tell his parents, I just have to find the right time.</p><p></p><p>Here is our dilema. We know she will get kicked out of college, that is a certainty because she will either break the rules or never go to class. But it is a way to get her out of the house. We told her she has one semester to make it or find a place of her own. If we try to kick her out now she has no car, no money and no place to live. Maybe we are just delaying the inevitable but one of two things will happen. Either she will decide she wants a better life and focus on college or she will get into trouble, probably be arrested, and she will be out of our home.</p><p></p><p>I don't know how else to do it since I don't have the proof to go to the police yet. Susie you will remember we turned her into the police several times in the past too, but she was a juvenile then just like yours. I'm not opposed to doing that now either.</p><p></p><p>I wanted to confront her now and tell her to leave since a condition for going to college was no drug use. husband wants to play it out and let her hang herself so we are not the ones imposing the consequences on her once again.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 294682, member: 59"] I search her room all the time but if she does go off to college in three weeks I'm going to strip her room and make sure nothing has been left behind. She really has very little in her room, no speakers or cd player, just a bed, dresser, night stand and tv on a stand. I do keep all our valuables locked up and I go through her pant pockets every night. She now takes her purse into the bathroom with her since she knows I checked her wallet and found the money. I am pretty certain it's pot and that she used her contact from the community college to buy it and then sell it to two different guys. But for her to make $65 it must have been a big buy. I also think her boyfriend keeps the drugs in his car. I intend to tell his parents, I just have to find the right time. Here is our dilema. We know she will get kicked out of college, that is a certainty because she will either break the rules or never go to class. But it is a way to get her out of the house. We told her she has one semester to make it or find a place of her own. If we try to kick her out now she has no car, no money and no place to live. Maybe we are just delaying the inevitable but one of two things will happen. Either she will decide she wants a better life and focus on college or she will get into trouble, probably be arrested, and she will be out of our home. I don't know how else to do it since I don't have the proof to go to the police yet. Susie you will remember we turned her into the police several times in the past too, but she was a juvenile then just like yours. I'm not opposed to doing that now either. I wanted to confront her now and tell her to leave since a condition for going to college was no drug use. husband wants to play it out and let her hang herself so we are not the ones imposing the consequences on her once again. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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