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Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?
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<blockquote data-quote="Cindy Marie" data-source="post: 709072" data-attributes="member: 21540"><p>UPDATE: My daughter reached out to me yesterday morning by text(from her new phone number) and began the conversation with "Hey." She then proceeded to ask if "they" are allowed to stop by our house because she was over this way and that she really missed our dog..she actually said she misses "my dog." and that our little dog was her best friend. She continued texting before I responded and then asked " can you take her out the house today and she can stop by and kiss her and play with her in the back yard." Then asked for a picture of our dog. I took a picture and sent to her..she replied " I love her." "Does she miss me?" I of course told her yes. She said she had been wanting to show him our house( we recently moved into a new home in October) and that she knows I do not like him and probably never will but for me to just say hi or something as she wants to show her house off and see her dog and get food. My husband and I had stepped out for a few errands and actually were not home as she was writing this. I did respond by telling her she was welcomed to come by. She said well he could just wait in the car but still persistent about allowing him to come inside and that if she comes home for good she knows that I will not accept him but would I enough to let him come upstairs or something...she knows it upsets me and that he does not abuse me."(I am writing this conversation just how she was texting). I told her to give me just a moment as we were just arriving back home...to text and she said "Mom! I just want you to text me and if I could call her later too." " I just miss u..A lot...I told her I miss her too so very much..Again she wrote..." I will come home if he could come over sometimes..I want to come home I miss you...I miss you and brat(our little Westie).."I can pick you up and get breakfast and Friday after school we can go to Ulta and get lunch or something...Mommy....( and here comes these random texts or one liners...immediately following the word "Mommy(again I am writing our conversation here as she wrote) "We need to have a serious talk...I replied Ok and she replied "Yes." I assumed she thought I was asking her if she was Ok but that was my response to her writing about having a serious talk.</p><p>Then she jumped right back about sending another picture of our dog. Well about this time we had arrived at home..I saw someone running beside our house...It was her!! She ran into the house hugging our dog and us and was like a little girl in a candy store. The tears just flowed from my eyes and down my face. My husband did ask her if she was happy and she said " No." but then she said he was different than other guys and that if she was being abused she would tell us. We knew better as she would not tell us. We had previously seen some bruises which I did not mention in my first thread but at that time, he also asked then and she said she fell..it was on the upper back side of her arm..typical of someone grabbing..but she denied it of course. She grabbed a few drinks and doughnuts and as she left my husband hugged her tight and the tears just flowed from her face and of course mine too. She did continue texting me after she left and is suppose to come here this morning before her class to get breakfast. She said she can not wait to see me and she would pick me up..and again she misses me. I did not say so much during this brief time she was here and also through text as I am trying to be careful as to what to say and what not to say. I am not sure I will receive responses in time before she arrives, but the kind words, prayers and any advise is so much appreciated as this we know will not be an overnight process.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cindy Marie, post: 709072, member: 21540"] UPDATE: My daughter reached out to me yesterday morning by text(from her new phone number) and began the conversation with "Hey." She then proceeded to ask if "they" are allowed to stop by our house because she was over this way and that she really missed our dog..she actually said she misses "my dog." and that our little dog was her best friend. She continued texting before I responded and then asked " can you take her out the house today and she can stop by and kiss her and play with her in the back yard." Then asked for a picture of our dog. I took a picture and sent to her..she replied " I love her." "Does she miss me?" I of course told her yes. She said she had been wanting to show him our house( we recently moved into a new home in October) and that she knows I do not like him and probably never will but for me to just say hi or something as she wants to show her house off and see her dog and get food. My husband and I had stepped out for a few errands and actually were not home as she was writing this. I did respond by telling her she was welcomed to come by. She said well he could just wait in the car but still persistent about allowing him to come inside and that if she comes home for good she knows that I will not accept him but would I enough to let him come upstairs or something...she knows it upsets me and that he does not abuse me."(I am writing this conversation just how she was texting). I told her to give me just a moment as we were just arriving back home...to text and she said "Mom! I just want you to text me and if I could call her later too." " I just miss u..A lot...I told her I miss her too so very much..Again she wrote..." I will come home if he could come over sometimes..I want to come home I miss you...I miss you and brat(our little Westie).."I can pick you up and get breakfast and Friday after school we can go to Ulta and get lunch or something...Mommy....( and here comes these random texts or one liners...immediately following the word "Mommy(again I am writing our conversation here as she wrote) "We need to have a serious talk...I replied Ok and she replied "Yes." I assumed she thought I was asking her if she was Ok but that was my response to her writing about having a serious talk. Then she jumped right back about sending another picture of our dog. Well about this time we had arrived at home..I saw someone running beside our house...It was her!! She ran into the house hugging our dog and us and was like a little girl in a candy store. The tears just flowed from my eyes and down my face. My husband did ask her if she was happy and she said " No." but then she said he was different than other guys and that if she was being abused she would tell us. We knew better as she would not tell us. We had previously seen some bruises which I did not mention in my first thread but at that time, he also asked then and she said she fell..it was on the upper back side of her arm..typical of someone grabbing..but she denied it of course. She grabbed a few drinks and doughnuts and as she left my husband hugged her tight and the tears just flowed from her face and of course mine too. She did continue texting me after she left and is suppose to come here this morning before her class to get breakfast. She said she can not wait to see me and she would pick me up..and again she misses me. I did not say so much during this brief time she was here and also through text as I am trying to be careful as to what to say and what not to say. I am not sure I will receive responses in time before she arrives, but the kind words, prayers and any advise is so much appreciated as this we know will not be an overnight process. [/QUOTE]
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