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Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?
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<blockquote data-quote="Cindy Marie" data-source="post: 709976" data-attributes="member: 21540"><p>My daughter came over yesterday and my husband was off and asked her to spend the day with us. She said she could not as she had dinner plans at 6. He told he loved her and that he was worried. She became defensive with him and said she was going to leave. She said she wanted to be alone for a while as it seems EVERYONE is always mad. She said that everyone tells her stay to herself. We know everyone is actually "him." We do not tell her to stay to herself nor have we ever. She then wrote that no one understands her stress and that she was not happy with herself. She has not told him she in fact dropped all of her classes this semester and continues coming here on those days and then leaves when "class" would be out. Should we allow her to come this often?? And we are her safe haven for these days.. She says she only writes that she wants to talk to me just because---supposedly there is nothing to talk about--she merely writes that to be writing that. Not true we know. She asked me to meet her for lunch today as she is working. The only reason is because she is working. She is not allowed any other time. </p><p></p><p>What do you all suggest--define keeping the lines of communication open--- do we just continuously let her know she can call anytime, but limit her visits?? When she first arrived yesterday, she said very little and crawled in my bed and went to sleep for maybe an hour-when she got up, my husband had asked her if she wanted lunch-we cooked a pizza-she said yes but then turned around and said she might get something out to eat--I asked her to please let me know as I did not want the food to be left out---she got angry at that---so we virtually can not talk or say anything to her...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cindy Marie, post: 709976, member: 21540"] My daughter came over yesterday and my husband was off and asked her to spend the day with us. She said she could not as she had dinner plans at 6. He told he loved her and that he was worried. She became defensive with him and said she was going to leave. She said she wanted to be alone for a while as it seems EVERYONE is always mad. She said that everyone tells her stay to herself. We know everyone is actually "him." We do not tell her to stay to herself nor have we ever. She then wrote that no one understands her stress and that she was not happy with herself. She has not told him she in fact dropped all of her classes this semester and continues coming here on those days and then leaves when "class" would be out. Should we allow her to come this often?? And we are her safe haven for these days.. She says she only writes that she wants to talk to me just because---supposedly there is nothing to talk about--she merely writes that to be writing that. Not true we know. She asked me to meet her for lunch today as she is working. The only reason is because she is working. She is not allowed any other time. What do you all suggest--define keeping the lines of communication open--- do we just continuously let her know she can call anytime, but limit her visits?? When she first arrived yesterday, she said very little and crawled in my bed and went to sleep for maybe an hour-when she got up, my husband had asked her if she wanted lunch-we cooked a pizza-she said yes but then turned around and said she might get something out to eat--I asked her to please let me know as I did not want the food to be left out---she got angry at that---so we virtually can not talk or say anything to her... [/QUOTE]
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