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Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?
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<blockquote data-quote="Cindy Marie" data-source="post: 711237" data-attributes="member: 21540"><p>I agree with you and my husband and I have been doing things together and trying to stay busy as we know it is important for our lives. Based on others responses about her reaching out to a therapist etc.. and knowing that I am limited, I wanted to know of any other possible suggestions how perhaps someone other than myself can reach out to her if at all as we know from her texts she is afraid of him and while I know she has to be willing, I do not think she will come out directly to ask for help because of her fear of him. The several times I have mentioned help, she shuts down and doesn't want to talk about him or the situation. There were 2 situations within the past 2 weeks that she had to go to the doctor and I told her for him to take her as she doesn't live here. One is something she has had 2 other times and is potential life threatening if left untreated( staph on her leg that was the size of a softball) that had just spread overnight and so she said he would not take her and she came to my home the following day she brought it to my attention. So what did I do? Take her to the doctor. Then the other day she a a virus and was up sick. I was told from my other daughter that he actually got mad at her for throwing up and getting some on the carpet. He apparently left the house because of it. She dis not dare tell me but called me around 6:30 the morning after and said she wished someone was there but he left for work. I couldn't get to her quick enough so I had no other number but his and called him to go back to her. After he continued disputing her not feeling well, I advised him I just got off the phone with her and she wanted me to take her to the doctor. What does he do? Picks her up and I met her at the doctor to pay of course and he ended up not returning to work but to take the day off and look like the hero he thinks he is when he didn't care to begin with. Should I have just ignored both of these situations? I know someone has to be willing but if they live in fear, will they?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cindy Marie, post: 711237, member: 21540"] I agree with you and my husband and I have been doing things together and trying to stay busy as we know it is important for our lives. Based on others responses about her reaching out to a therapist etc.. and knowing that I am limited, I wanted to know of any other possible suggestions how perhaps someone other than myself can reach out to her if at all as we know from her texts she is afraid of him and while I know she has to be willing, I do not think she will come out directly to ask for help because of her fear of him. The several times I have mentioned help, she shuts down and doesn't want to talk about him or the situation. There were 2 situations within the past 2 weeks that she had to go to the doctor and I told her for him to take her as she doesn't live here. One is something she has had 2 other times and is potential life threatening if left untreated( staph on her leg that was the size of a softball) that had just spread overnight and so she said he would not take her and she came to my home the following day she brought it to my attention. So what did I do? Take her to the doctor. Then the other day she a a virus and was up sick. I was told from my other daughter that he actually got mad at her for throwing up and getting some on the carpet. He apparently left the house because of it. She dis not dare tell me but called me around 6:30 the morning after and said she wished someone was there but he left for work. I couldn't get to her quick enough so I had no other number but his and called him to go back to her. After he continued disputing her not feeling well, I advised him I just got off the phone with her and she wanted me to take her to the doctor. What does he do? Picks her up and I met her at the doctor to pay of course and he ended up not returning to work but to take the day off and look like the hero he thinks he is when he didn't care to begin with. Should I have just ignored both of these situations? I know someone has to be willing but if they live in fear, will they? [/QUOTE]
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