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Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?
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<blockquote data-quote="Cindy Marie" data-source="post: 711297" data-attributes="member: 21540"><p>My daughter stopped by yesterday afternoon unexpectedly after work around 3:30. She said "HI", picked up our little Westie and hugged her, jumped in the shower and grabbed a few clothes and said " and I asked her why she had to leave so quickly..she said to pick him up from work. Apparently she dropped him off at his work and she went to work--another ploy to make certain she comes back to him and can not do anything else after work. She has stopped by like this before-unexpectedly--but from I gather from her actions as she never wants to discuss him or his family whatsoever-and from what my other daughter has told---he does not like when she sees my other daughter or she lies to him as she is not "allowed" to see us without him...as he thinks we will take her away I am sure---and she left with wet hair this time so I wonder where he would think she would have showered??!! </p><p></p><p> I know some in this forum have mentioned setting time frames to text, talk, etc., so any suggestions on her randomly stopping by? Should I allow or advise her to contact me before doing so? Also, the situations with her needing to go to the doctor--should my door steps be the one she comes to for this since she does not live here? When I told her to have them or him take her on the first occasion---the cellulitis(like a staph) she immediately said "NO." and then she said he would not take her. I asked her why? she had no response. After he did not seem the urgency on her going to the doctor he takes off work and she leaves with him--only leaving me the bill to pay. To only add insult to injury after all she has done, am I only good enough to pay the bill?? Naturally, her health is of the utmost and naturally I would only want to see her well---but should I continue being the one she calls upon for this yet she does not live here and can not visit or have anything to do with us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cindy Marie, post: 711297, member: 21540"] My daughter stopped by yesterday afternoon unexpectedly after work around 3:30. She said "HI", picked up our little Westie and hugged her, jumped in the shower and grabbed a few clothes and said " and I asked her why she had to leave so quickly..she said to pick him up from work. Apparently she dropped him off at his work and she went to work--another ploy to make certain she comes back to him and can not do anything else after work. She has stopped by like this before-unexpectedly--but from I gather from her actions as she never wants to discuss him or his family whatsoever-and from what my other daughter has told---he does not like when she sees my other daughter or she lies to him as she is not "allowed" to see us without him...as he thinks we will take her away I am sure---and she left with wet hair this time so I wonder where he would think she would have showered??!! I know some in this forum have mentioned setting time frames to text, talk, etc., so any suggestions on her randomly stopping by? Should I allow or advise her to contact me before doing so? Also, the situations with her needing to go to the doctor--should my door steps be the one she comes to for this since she does not live here? When I told her to have them or him take her on the first occasion---the cellulitis(like a staph) she immediately said "NO." and then she said he would not take her. I asked her why? she had no response. After he did not seem the urgency on her going to the doctor he takes off work and she leaves with him--only leaving me the bill to pay. To only add insult to injury after all she has done, am I only good enough to pay the bill?? Naturally, her health is of the utmost and naturally I would only want to see her well---but should I continue being the one she calls upon for this yet she does not live here and can not visit or have anything to do with us. [/QUOTE]
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