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Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?
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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 718112" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Just reread your entire story.</p><p></p><p>It seems she may have originally gotten into the situation with this guy to be rebellious but then it turned into something else.</p><p></p><p>I think he put her on the car to trap her. I would never mingle my money with a man's unless we were married. But just because her name is on the car doesn't mean she should be chained to him forever. I'd let my credit go to the dogs before I'd tie myself to someone I did not want to be with.</p><p></p><p>It sounds like right now she is living the way she wants to live although she tells you differently. She is the only one that can change her life. You cannot do it. You have done everything in your power to stand by her and support her, even when your own health is at risk.</p><p></p><p>I would see a therapist for yourself and set some healthy boundaries with her. You are on the crazy train with her and it is taking over your entire life!!</p><p></p><p>It is not good for you and not helping her. I would tell her when she is ready to move home you will help her but in the meantime I would somewhat limit my exposure to all of this for your own good.</p><p></p><p>I would also worry about that gun and call the police and ask them if you are able to leave an anonymous tip with them about him having it.</p><p></p><p>It's sad your daughter is wasting so much time with this guy if she is not happy. She must be getting something out of the relationship though. I think she has to come to terms with how her life is now and if she wants to change it. She is the ONLY person that can do that. You cannot and should not make yourself sick over her daily trials. <u>This is her choice right now.</u></p><p></p><p>Stay strong. We are pulling for you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 718112, member: 15032"] Just reread your entire story. It seems she may have originally gotten into the situation with this guy to be rebellious but then it turned into something else. I think he put her on the car to trap her. I would never mingle my money with a man's unless we were married. But just because her name is on the car doesn't mean she should be chained to him forever. I'd let my credit go to the dogs before I'd tie myself to someone I did not want to be with. It sounds like right now she is living the way she wants to live although she tells you differently. She is the only one that can change her life. You cannot do it. You have done everything in your power to stand by her and support her, even when your own health is at risk. I would see a therapist for yourself and set some healthy boundaries with her. You are on the crazy train with her and it is taking over your entire life!! It is not good for you and not helping her. I would tell her when she is ready to move home you will help her but in the meantime I would somewhat limit my exposure to all of this for your own good. I would also worry about that gun and call the police and ask them if you are able to leave an anonymous tip with them about him having it. It's sad your daughter is wasting so much time with this guy if she is not happy. She must be getting something out of the relationship though. I think she has to come to terms with how her life is now and if she wants to change it. She is the ONLY person that can do that. You cannot and should not make yourself sick over her daily trials. [U]This is her choice right now.[/U] Stay strong. We are pulling for you! [/QUOTE]
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