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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 38659" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Im gonna chime in here too. My son ONLY smokes pot. He is now sitting in jail. He swears he will never smoke it again and I pray that is true. I looked the other way because it was "only" pot and hell, we smoked it when we were kids and plenty of people I know smoke pot and carry on normal productive lives. My son cannot do this.</p><p></p><p>difficult child's cannot do this. They simply cannot.</p><p></p><p>I am going to be point blank here. Dont be your sons friend now be his father. You can be his friend when he is an adult. Set the rules and dont let him flop his big toe over them. Better he learn that he will get arrested now for drugs than when he is an adult. If you know he is driving while impaired...Call the law! If he is making pot crackers...call the law! If he is bringing pot into your house, call the law! Bring his bottom up NOW so you can stop him and make him realize consequences now. Before he is sitting in a jail cell as an adult. </p><p></p><p>School is of no good to him if he is rotting in jail. I would yank his car, his perks and everything he hold dear if he cant shape up. I dont care who bought it or pays for it. Until he is 18, you literally own it. All money he earns, you really own. He isnt considered able to make those decisions. One of those lovely perks. Hold it over his head. You literally own the air he breaths in your home and he needs to know it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 38659, member: 1514"] Im gonna chime in here too. My son ONLY smokes pot. He is now sitting in jail. He swears he will never smoke it again and I pray that is true. I looked the other way because it was "only" pot and hell, we smoked it when we were kids and plenty of people I know smoke pot and carry on normal productive lives. My son cannot do this. difficult child's cannot do this. They simply cannot. I am going to be point blank here. Dont be your sons friend now be his father. You can be his friend when he is an adult. Set the rules and dont let him flop his big toe over them. Better he learn that he will get arrested now for drugs than when he is an adult. If you know he is driving while impaired...Call the law! If he is making pot crackers...call the law! If he is bringing pot into your house, call the law! Bring his bottom up NOW so you can stop him and make him realize consequences now. Before he is sitting in a jail cell as an adult. School is of no good to him if he is rotting in jail. I would yank his car, his perks and everything he hold dear if he cant shape up. I dont care who bought it or pays for it. Until he is 18, you literally own it. All money he earns, you really own. He isnt considered able to make those decisions. One of those lovely perks. Hold it over his head. You literally own the air he breaths in your home and he needs to know it. [/QUOTE]
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