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OMG, his plan is to return here...
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 657481" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I'm reading along BG. I'm sorry for this new development. If his exgf's mother is not helping him, perhaps he will stay put.</p><p></p><p>As others have stated and I have learned first hand perhaps 10,000 times, don't put energy into worrying about something that may not happen. Our minds are cruel masters when it comes to fear and we can build a complete scenario about all that <u>could</u> happen. You have a plan, you've told him you're not helping him, you have an inside track with exgf's mom, you have us to vent to.........try to stay here in the present moment and go do something with your day which will bring you some peace.</p><p></p><p>When I was in the thick of it with my daughter, husband and I would take off for the day. There is something very helpful about getting in the car and heading out of town. Or go get a pedicure. Change the direction of the day into one that takes you off the worry track and puts you somewhere else. Sometimes that is a minute to minute thing, keep changing tracks until your mind unhooks from the worry of it.</p><p></p><p>We all know how it feels to be in that place. You're certainly not alone. We're all here circling our wagons around you BG.</p><p></p><p>Sending bug hugs......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 657481, member: 13542"] I'm reading along BG. I'm sorry for this new development. If his exgf's mother is not helping him, perhaps he will stay put. As others have stated and I have learned first hand perhaps 10,000 times, don't put energy into worrying about something that may not happen. Our minds are cruel masters when it comes to fear and we can build a complete scenario about all that [U]could[/U] happen. You have a plan, you've told him you're not helping him, you have an inside track with exgf's mom, you have us to vent to.........try to stay here in the present moment and go do something with your day which will bring you some peace. When I was in the thick of it with my daughter, husband and I would take off for the day. There is something very helpful about getting in the car and heading out of town. Or go get a pedicure. Change the direction of the day into one that takes you off the worry track and puts you somewhere else. Sometimes that is a minute to minute thing, keep changing tracks until your mind unhooks from the worry of it. We all know how it feels to be in that place. You're certainly not alone. We're all here circling our wagons around you BG. Sending bug hugs...... [/QUOTE]
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