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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 657706" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I would be afraid to spend five minutes alone with him. I wonder if he is a sociopath? He is deliberately doing these things and making these threats and he DID hurt you.</p><p></p><p>You know, if this were anybody but a child, you would be gone, even if he were a different family member. I get how hard it must be to disconnect with a child we raised. But he isn't the child we raised or that YOU raised. He is the man he chose to become and he is not afraid of the police so who WILL scare him into behaving in a socially acceptable and non-violent way? </p><p></p><p>Print off your post and hang it on the refrigerator so that you STAY SAFE and never feel the desire to be alone with him. On th e Difficult Child scale, I feel he is at the extreme end...meaning dangerous and completely without a conscience. There is nothing you can do for him and he may hurt you without any reason, just because he holds some grudge from years ago. It is one thing for our Difficult Child to self-destruct. That is bad, but can warrant sympathy at times. This young man is a danger to others. The drugs don't help, but it does not sound like it is just the drugs.He will cut your head off when you get home? Really?</p><p></p><p>He can't be in your home or in your car or out on the streets with you alone. You need to be in a public place with tons of people if you see him, like a busy coffee shop. He is very sick, but not the kind of sick you can cure.</p><p></p><p>This is bonechilling. You need to protect yourself, live your dreams that are NOT related to THIS young man, and detach like there's no tomorrow. Rejoice when you see your other child and your friends and other loved ones who are able to appreciate your kindness and good heart and whom you are not afraid to be alone with. Celebrate the good in your life, and remember that you matter. Safety, safety, safety.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry for your hurting heart. There are no really good things to say that can make it better other than to love yourself and those who really CAN love you back.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 657706, member: 1550"] I would be afraid to spend five minutes alone with him. I wonder if he is a sociopath? He is deliberately doing these things and making these threats and he DID hurt you. You know, if this were anybody but a child, you would be gone, even if he were a different family member. I get how hard it must be to disconnect with a child we raised. But he isn't the child we raised or that YOU raised. He is the man he chose to become and he is not afraid of the police so who WILL scare him into behaving in a socially acceptable and non-violent way? Print off your post and hang it on the refrigerator so that you STAY SAFE and never feel the desire to be alone with him. On th e Difficult Child scale, I feel he is at the extreme end...meaning dangerous and completely without a conscience. There is nothing you can do for him and he may hurt you without any reason, just because he holds some grudge from years ago. It is one thing for our Difficult Child to self-destruct. That is bad, but can warrant sympathy at times. This young man is a danger to others. The drugs don't help, but it does not sound like it is just the drugs.He will cut your head off when you get home? Really? He can't be in your home or in your car or out on the streets with you alone. You need to be in a public place with tons of people if you see him, like a busy coffee shop. He is very sick, but not the kind of sick you can cure. This is bonechilling. You need to protect yourself, live your dreams that are NOT related to THIS young man, and detach like there's no tomorrow. Rejoice when you see your other child and your friends and other loved ones who are able to appreciate your kindness and good heart and whom you are not afraid to be alone with. Celebrate the good in your life, and remember that you matter. Safety, safety, safety. I'm sorry for your hurting heart. There are no really good things to say that can make it better other than to love yourself and those who really CAN love you back. [/QUOTE]
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