Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
OMG, his plan is to return here...
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="blackgnat" data-source="post: 657819" data-attributes="member: 13561"><p>Thanks so much for the posts-to everyone, but especially to the amount of thought and effort that tish and Cedar put into their most recent ones. Thanks to everyone for taking time out of their day to console and support me, It means everything.</p><p></p><p>Yes, I was thinking of going back to OZ-not enough cash for the airfare though!</p><p></p><p>Difficult Child contacted exgf's ma yesterday and told her to tell me that he is sorry and loves me and wants to talk to me. But that I need to put money on his jail phone. Horse's b*lls, right?</p><p></p><p>I'm thinking he wants to talk to me to try and get me to drive him back here. But I had a talk with my ex and I've decided it would be foolish to make a return journey-the cost of gas alone would be $300 and that's a lot for me. So I will either get a cheap return flight (if I get a new job here in IL after school is out-I'm retired, but subbing) or just make a one way trip to CO and look for work there. There really isn't a lot here for me now and as I've said, I'm missing out on Easy Child's life.</p><p></p><p>If Difficult Child is still determined to be in IL after he gets out and I'm not there, great! He will have to pay for his own bus fare, though. Right now he's going to be in for another 9 days and then says the state will load up his card and he'll be on his way to Illinois.</p><p></p><p>Exgf's ma wrote him a very stern letter, saying to stop relying on his parents and grow up . To stop verbally abusing me and asking me to walk a mile in his shoes, when HE chose the shoes! It was a great letter, but even she confessed to feeling apprehensive about visiting him after he has read it...</p><p> </p><p>This little man has a LOT of power...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="blackgnat, post: 657819, member: 13561"] Thanks so much for the posts-to everyone, but especially to the amount of thought and effort that tish and Cedar put into their most recent ones. Thanks to everyone for taking time out of their day to console and support me, It means everything. Yes, I was thinking of going back to OZ-not enough cash for the airfare though! Difficult Child contacted exgf's ma yesterday and told her to tell me that he is sorry and loves me and wants to talk to me. But that I need to put money on his jail phone. Horse's b*lls, right? I'm thinking he wants to talk to me to try and get me to drive him back here. But I had a talk with my ex and I've decided it would be foolish to make a return journey-the cost of gas alone would be $300 and that's a lot for me. So I will either get a cheap return flight (if I get a new job here in IL after school is out-I'm retired, but subbing) or just make a one way trip to CO and look for work there. There really isn't a lot here for me now and as I've said, I'm missing out on Easy Child's life. If Difficult Child is still determined to be in IL after he gets out and I'm not there, great! He will have to pay for his own bus fare, though. Right now he's going to be in for another 9 days and then says the state will load up his card and he'll be on his way to Illinois. Exgf's ma wrote him a very stern letter, saying to stop relying on his parents and grow up . To stop verbally abusing me and asking me to walk a mile in his shoes, when HE chose the shoes! It was a great letter, but even she confessed to feeling apprehensive about visiting him after he has read it... This little man has a LOT of power... [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
OMG, his plan is to return here...
Top