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OMG, his plan is to return here...
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 657944" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I know it was awful to listen to that voicemail, but truly it was a gift. The gift of clarity. I'd be tempted to play it for the girlfriend's mom (is that who's been acting as intermediary for him?) so that she can understand and also protect herself from becoming your surrogate in his mind. I'd put it to her just as you did to us. </p><p><em></em></p><p><em>"I'd been wrestling with wanting to help him and being worried as to how bad it could get if he came home, then I got this. I can't have him come home and I can't spend money I don't have to go see him. You should know for your own decision making as to what to do what he can be like if he thinks he deserves something from you that you don't give to him on his terms."</em></p><p></p><p>Then she can make up her own mind.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 657944, member: 99"] I know it was awful to listen to that voicemail, but truly it was a gift. The gift of clarity. I'd be tempted to play it for the girlfriend's mom (is that who's been acting as intermediary for him?) so that she can understand and also protect herself from becoming your surrogate in his mind. I'd put it to her just as you did to us. [I] "I'd been wrestling with wanting to help him and being worried as to how bad it could get if he came home, then I got this. I can't have him come home and I can't spend money I don't have to go see him. You should know for your own decision making as to what to do what he can be like if he thinks he deserves something from you that you don't give to him on his terms."[/I] Then she can make up her own mind. [/QUOTE]
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