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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 759962" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi Copa, I am sad that you are right there with me on this very hard journey. If one of us figures out how to handle the conflicting emotions lets make sure to share that information.</p><p>I remember making a list of all the things my daughter does that upsets me. I put the very long list in the kitchen to where I can see it everyday. Each time she called for money or tell me how broke she was I would look at that list and say to myself 'That is very expensive behavior' it helped me not feel bad about not giving her money or stepping back from her nonsense. Also when I keep a list of recent harm done by her it helps me not dwell on what could have been and what I maybe missing by having a healthy relationship with her.</p><p></p><p>My daughter and other adults have NO idea how expensive their nasty behavior is. My daughter would be way ahead if she did not have such toxic ways.</p><p></p><p>Thank you for fully understanding me. I appreciate you.</p><p></p><p>.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 759962, member: 22416"] Hi Copa, I am sad that you are right there with me on this very hard journey. If one of us figures out how to handle the conflicting emotions lets make sure to share that information. I remember making a list of all the things my daughter does that upsets me. I put the very long list in the kitchen to where I can see it everyday. Each time she called for money or tell me how broke she was I would look at that list and say to myself 'That is very expensive behavior' it helped me not feel bad about not giving her money or stepping back from her nonsense. Also when I keep a list of recent harm done by her it helps me not dwell on what could have been and what I maybe missing by having a healthy relationship with her. My daughter and other adults have NO idea how expensive their nasty behavior is. My daughter would be way ahead if she did not have such toxic ways. Thank you for fully understanding me. I appreciate you. . [/QUOTE]
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