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<blockquote data-quote="Acacia" data-source="post: 747229" data-attributes="member: 19832"><p>All those who have written have touched my heart. Overcome mom if I hadn't seen your alias I would have thought I wrote what you posted! I am learning, slowly but surely. I am not as strong as I would like to be, but if I can stay in the present moment and stop myself from fretting about the future, then things go better. I, too, worry that more than substances my son's most pressing issue is a personality disorder, but even there, it's not for me to diagnose him. </p><p></p><p>I visited him at rehab, and we had a good visit. I stayed in the moment, did not give advice, and did not ask what will happen after the 28 days. He said he will be losing his license because of two unpaid tickets. I did not offer to pay them. This is very hard work for me. Hands off, heart on. My love and concern to all of us in our struggles with our difficult, but loved adult children.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Acacia, post: 747229, member: 19832"] All those who have written have touched my heart. Overcome mom if I hadn't seen your alias I would have thought I wrote what you posted! I am learning, slowly but surely. I am not as strong as I would like to be, but if I can stay in the present moment and stop myself from fretting about the future, then things go better. I, too, worry that more than substances my son's most pressing issue is a personality disorder, but even there, it's not for me to diagnose him. I visited him at rehab, and we had a good visit. I stayed in the moment, did not give advice, and did not ask what will happen after the 28 days. He said he will be losing his license because of two unpaid tickets. I did not offer to pay them. This is very hard work for me. Hands off, heart on. My love and concern to all of us in our struggles with our difficult, but loved adult children. [/QUOTE]
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