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<blockquote data-quote="Heartbroken mom" data-source="post: 747465" data-attributes="member: 22697"><p>Thank you all for sharing your wisdom</p><p>This is a hard road </p><p>Loving those who actually don’t love themselves and blame us for their problems </p><p>I check in and see the wisdom of detachment </p><p>And finally have chosen my well being over the roller coaster ride of fog manipulation and consequences that are my sons not my way of living </p><p>My code word now is enough</p><p>I have given listened been used enough</p><p>I have enough self love and boundaries that I choose what is living and sustainable for me</p><p>Realized I would never put up with the abuse or over give to anyone else would recognize it for what it was</p><p>But with this adult child I used to allow him to manipulate me ever time</p><p>Letting go is a gift to us both</p><p>Freedom for me</p><p>Enough</p><p>Freedom for him to find out how good it feels to know you can rely on yourself and have healthy relationships </p><p>I am only responsible for my own soul </p><p>Sharing is beautiful </p><p>Being manipulated by guilt obligation and fear is not</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Heartbroken mom, post: 747465, member: 22697"] Thank you all for sharing your wisdom This is a hard road Loving those who actually don’t love themselves and blame us for their problems I check in and see the wisdom of detachment And finally have chosen my well being over the roller coaster ride of fog manipulation and consequences that are my sons not my way of living My code word now is enough I have given listened been used enough I have enough self love and boundaries that I choose what is living and sustainable for me Realized I would never put up with the abuse or over give to anyone else would recognize it for what it was But with this adult child I used to allow him to manipulate me ever time Letting go is a gift to us both Freedom for me Enough Freedom for him to find out how good it feels to know you can rely on yourself and have healthy relationships I am only responsible for my own soul Sharing is beautiful Being manipulated by guilt obligation and fear is not [/QUOTE]
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