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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 684096" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>RN, I am not so sure about the bond part......Rain is somewhat, how should I put this, <em>distant</em> and has been for a long time. She blames a lot of her life's woes on me. <em>SIGH. </em>I went to court to support her, I am not sure where she is at this point with that. I saw her a few times after she had been abused by this man, wanted her to go to a DV shelter, call police, she would have none of it. I do not know why. My thoughts are that it would restrict her meth use. It is sad. But, there is not much I can do. Hubs says she doesn't want change. So true. She has to want change. So, I will support her as much as I can, but not enable.</p><p></p><p> Yes, it is. Hubs is not a talker, not a softy, he doesn't fool me, underneath it all he is. He is a rock and has worked so hard his whole life to provide for our family. Though he doesn't talk much about it, his daughters choices are really hurting him.</p><p> I am so thankful for my time spent in the ocean. Plan to get back to it when life settles down a bit......being at the beach is so freeing. I have seen a few sharks in my time, sent me to shore. There is nothing quite like sitting on a surfboard waiting for a wave, having that feeling of a presence, looking down to see a shadow larger than my ten foot board swimming beneath me......that is a "time to go in signal!!!!"</p><p>I have also seen beautiful fish, turtles, spinner dolphins and even whales.</p><p>It's not too late for you to get out there and experience surfing RN, or even canoe paddling.....</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 684096, member: 19522"] RN, I am not so sure about the bond part......Rain is somewhat, how should I put this, [I]distant[/I] and has been for a long time. She blames a lot of her life's woes on me. [I]SIGH. [/I]I went to court to support her, I am not sure where she is at this point with that. I saw her a few times after she had been abused by this man, wanted her to go to a DV shelter, call police, she would have none of it. I do not know why. My thoughts are that it would restrict her meth use. It is sad. But, there is not much I can do. Hubs says she doesn't want change. So true. She has to want change. So, I will support her as much as I can, but not enable. Yes, it is. Hubs is not a talker, not a softy, he doesn't fool me, underneath it all he is. He is a rock and has worked so hard his whole life to provide for our family. Though he doesn't talk much about it, his daughters choices are really hurting him. I am so thankful for my time spent in the ocean. Plan to get back to it when life settles down a bit......being at the beach is so freeing. I have seen a few sharks in my time, sent me to shore. There is nothing quite like sitting on a surfboard waiting for a wave, having that feeling of a presence, looking down to see a shadow larger than my ten foot board swimming beneath me......that is a "time to go in signal!!!!" I have also seen beautiful fish, turtles, spinner dolphins and even whales. It's not too late for you to get out there and experience surfing RN, or even canoe paddling..... (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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