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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 677639" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This last precept of shunning is unclear.</p><p></p><p>What I mean is this. I will work it backwards where it is clearer:</p><p></p><p>My mother is put in a rehab hospital by my sister, who has not told her why she went and where she is. My sister has pressured and manipulated the doctors to achieve this result. She has done so without a power of attorney and against the advanced directive. She has not informed me (named in advance directive) of what she is doing, until a brief email after she did it.</p><p></p><p>I find out. I tell my mother. I tell the social worker. My mother gets herself out.</p><p></p><p>My sister shuns us.</p><p></p><p>My sister then sends a letter to my mother 8 months or so later that she had gotten breast cancer, had had 14 hours of surgery, that my mother and I had caused all of it. That she can never see or speak to us again because we are toxic to her. My mother at this time must have been 86. She called me sobbing. </p><p></p><p>The original crime was my sister's who transgressed a legal agreement and immorally tried to confine my mother to the rehab hospital for her own interests.</p><p>She transgressed.</p><p></p><p>She was called on it. </p><p></p><p>She responded by shunning. To establish that others, not her, were responsible. </p><p>She did it to feel in control, still.</p><p></p><p>She then upped the shun, by the toxic letter. She inflicted more pain in order to punish for the cancer. </p><p></p><p>That latter action by her is really revealing because it shows how the shunning is used in a sense as means of communication.</p><p></p><p>What did my sister say in that letter: You are responsible for everything bad that happens to me in my life. You are poison. Toxic. I am pure. I was pure and would be pure if it were not for you who defile me. I define you. I can define you as responsible for my soiling, my defiling. I declare you doubly shunned.</p><p></p><p>My sister wet her bed until she was about 10. My mother hated it. My mother allowed her to walk around naked in the house (completely) in front of my stepfather. Nobody said a word.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 677639, member: 18958"] This last precept of shunning is unclear. What I mean is this. I will work it backwards where it is clearer: My mother is put in a rehab hospital by my sister, who has not told her why she went and where she is. My sister has pressured and manipulated the doctors to achieve this result. She has done so without a power of attorney and against the advanced directive. She has not informed me (named in advance directive) of what she is doing, until a brief email after she did it. I find out. I tell my mother. I tell the social worker. My mother gets herself out. My sister shuns us. My sister then sends a letter to my mother 8 months or so later that she had gotten breast cancer, had had 14 hours of surgery, that my mother and I had caused all of it. That she can never see or speak to us again because we are toxic to her. My mother at this time must have been 86. She called me sobbing. The original crime was my sister's who transgressed a legal agreement and immorally tried to confine my mother to the rehab hospital for her own interests. She transgressed. She was called on it. She responded by shunning. To establish that others, not her, were responsible. She did it to feel in control, still. She then upped the shun, by the toxic letter. She inflicted more pain in order to punish for the cancer. That latter action by her is really revealing because it shows how the shunning is used in a sense as means of communication. What did my sister say in that letter: You are responsible for everything bad that happens to me in my life. You are poison. Toxic. I am pure. I was pure and would be pure if it were not for you who defile me. I define you. I can define you as responsible for my soiling, my defiling. I declare you doubly shunned. My sister wet her bed until she was about 10. My mother hated it. My mother allowed her to walk around naked in the house (completely) in front of my stepfather. Nobody said a word. COPA [/QUOTE]
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