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<blockquote data-quote="Capricorn142" data-source="post: 762969" data-attributes="member: 30236"><p>I am in the same boat. My daughter is 35. I have paid her bills and tried to help her maintain a relationship with her kids (girl aged 16 and son aged 11). For years she had shared 50/50 custody with her ex husband but her drug use, exposure to domestic violence, a series of short-lived relationships, and failure to do the bare necessities resulted in her having every other weekend which I’ve been told I’ve taken over because the kids don’t want to come, but instead stay here with me—she lives around the corner in a house I pay for.</p><p></p><p>Last night she took money from my PayPal account—and she has taken from my bank accounts before—but It is MY FAULT because when she was in the process of stealing from me she saw I sent her ex money to help with her daughter’s car insurance. She pays no support and will not work. I blew up, and again it is my fault. I kept on hoping things would get better and have paid for rehab twice. Her dad and I—though divorced—would do anything to help her. She either does not see nor does not care about the hell she puts everyone through. </p><p></p><p>Her eldest brother is in renal failure and needs a transplant. Her other bother also has medical issues and requires financial help. I’m 65 and eight years sober—and a lawyer. I’m at my wit’s end and miss my daughter. Up until about 8 or 9 years ago we had a great relationship and she was an asset in my office. Then she started cheating on her husband and not coming to work. She started neglecting the kids too.</p><p></p><p>I’m at a loss.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Capricorn142, post: 762969, member: 30236"] I am in the same boat. My daughter is 35. I have paid her bills and tried to help her maintain a relationship with her kids (girl aged 16 and son aged 11). For years she had shared 50/50 custody with her ex husband but her drug use, exposure to domestic violence, a series of short-lived relationships, and failure to do the bare necessities resulted in her having every other weekend which I’ve been told I’ve taken over because the kids don’t want to come, but instead stay here with me—she lives around the corner in a house I pay for. Last night she took money from my PayPal account—and she has taken from my bank accounts before—but It is MY FAULT because when she was in the process of stealing from me she saw I sent her ex money to help with her daughter’s car insurance. She pays no support and will not work. I blew up, and again it is my fault. I kept on hoping things would get better and have paid for rehab twice. Her dad and I—though divorced—would do anything to help her. She either does not see nor does not care about the hell she puts everyone through. Her eldest brother is in renal failure and needs a transplant. Her other bother also has medical issues and requires financial help. I’m 65 and eight years sober—and a lawyer. I’m at my wit’s end and miss my daughter. Up until about 8 or 9 years ago we had a great relationship and she was an asset in my office. Then she started cheating on her husband and not coming to work. She started neglecting the kids too. I’m at a loss. [/QUOTE]
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