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PAY ATTENTION TO INKLINGS, even if you're "off" on some specifics!!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 374594"><p>All along I have wondered what in the world is wrong with- that woman.</p><p>She has been manipulative (to say the least). </p><p>Huge red flags when someone accusses YOU of not being well....when your intuition is screaming at you and evidence is mounting backing you up.</p><p>"They" meaning the manipulating ones....play on the hearts of those who are unsure of themselves.</p><p>What a heartache.</p><p>FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION. FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION. FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION. </p><p>It might take time for the evidence to come, but more than likely it will come.</p><p>I agee, in time, they will reep what they sow.</p><p>In the mean time, what are the lessons for you in all this? For one, your intuition is good/healthy/to be trusted/respected.</p><p>For another, if you ask someone a question, and they imply that you are 'crazy' for asking the question....that is a red flag. They are diverting the attention back to you. It is a form of manipulation the GUILTY use....often used by sociopaths if you ask me.</p><p>Not sure what the answer (s) is/are in all of this. I do wish there was a way you could subtley let your children know that you are avialble/open to them, if they are willing to behave appropriately and respectfully.</p><p>They are adults now and bottom line, they are free to make their choices and its healthy for you to set limits.</p><p>But this has got to be a BAD feeling all around...my heart goes out to you. (((((HUGS)))))</p><p> </p><p>p.s. Some folks try to 'usurp' our parenting role not too long ago. Guess what? They recently GAVE UP. LOL! MIght be partially 'cause I didn't fight it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 374594"] All along I have wondered what in the world is wrong with- that woman. She has been manipulative (to say the least). Huge red flags when someone accusses YOU of not being well....when your intuition is screaming at you and evidence is mounting backing you up. "They" meaning the manipulating ones....play on the hearts of those who are unsure of themselves. What a heartache. FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION. FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION. FOLLOW YOUR INTUITION. It might take time for the evidence to come, but more than likely it will come. I agee, in time, they will reep what they sow. In the mean time, what are the lessons for you in all this? For one, your intuition is good/healthy/to be trusted/respected. For another, if you ask someone a question, and they imply that you are 'crazy' for asking the question....that is a red flag. They are diverting the attention back to you. It is a form of manipulation the GUILTY use....often used by sociopaths if you ask me. Not sure what the answer (s) is/are in all of this. I do wish there was a way you could subtley let your children know that you are avialble/open to them, if they are willing to behave appropriately and respectfully. They are adults now and bottom line, they are free to make their choices and its healthy for you to set limits. But this has got to be a BAD feeling all around...my heart goes out to you. (((((HUGS))))) p.s. Some folks try to 'usurp' our parenting role not too long ago. Guess what? They recently GAVE UP. LOL! MIght be partially 'cause I didn't fight it. [/QUOTE]
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