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Peace after trauma. Can you share your secrets please?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731604" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thank you very much, all. Some good ideas. And you bothered to answer even though this is on the wrong page <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Wiser, what soul cards do you have that help you, if you don't mind sharing.</p><p></p><p>I.am starting to calm down on my own...maybe I just needed to write it down. In black and white, without feeling in any way restricted since Dad is in spirit now, I could plainly see that my peeps were and are at worst very sick, at best just not nice and control freaks. I needed to get the cop calls out of my system. They had always been troubling me and right under the surface. I had to get it out about how often she did that, even after we left the state. Funny, she used to warn me never to even do a well check on her. She knew that the cops at your home raise eyebrows and she didnt want that. Well neither did my husband and I but she didn't care.</p><p></p><p>After calling the cops umpteen times she still had the gall to call or text my husband when she wanted to sneak her way back into my life, as she always eventually did. She is not stupid. But it didn't occur to her that maybe he loathed her for what she had done with the cops...haha. He did!</p><p></p><p> Anyhow (I guess I still have some venting left...sorry) these crazy calls were never addressed with my sister. If I tried to bring up anything that bothered me, she would turn it on me. Yet I had to apologize for what she felt I did to her. Once, when I told her the Gods honest truth, she sneered ( and she DID sneer) "I will NEVER believe that." But I had told her the truth and she just did t like it (shrug).</p><p></p><p>Anyhow, writing down the truth, and it is all true, makes me see that this person was more than just abusive to me... That she would have happily send me to to jail to shut me up. Thankfully, there is Freedom of Speech.</p><p></p><p>I know things about her, especially financially, that could interfer with her cash flow. It would not be hard for me to find a way to contact the person she is cheating with evidence since it relates to our inheritance and we both got the same amount. Funny, I am not doing it. I think she would have.</p><p></p><p></p><p>But I am in a better place now and look forward to Jumper's graduation and party next week. Plus after six weeks of interviewing on and off, Jumper is very close to being hired for the county jail job! Big salary, and benefits as long as a roll of toilet paper and close enough to us that she can meet us for lunch!</p><p></p><p> In the end, my real family is what and who is important.</p><p></p><p>I thank everybody for listening.</p><p></p><p>"This too shall pass."</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731604, member: 1550"] Thank you very much, all. Some good ideas. And you bothered to answer even though this is on the wrong page :) Wiser, what soul cards do you have that help you, if you don't mind sharing. I.am starting to calm down on my own...maybe I just needed to write it down. In black and white, without feeling in any way restricted since Dad is in spirit now, I could plainly see that my peeps were and are at worst very sick, at best just not nice and control freaks. I needed to get the cop calls out of my system. They had always been troubling me and right under the surface. I had to get it out about how often she did that, even after we left the state. Funny, she used to warn me never to even do a well check on her. She knew that the cops at your home raise eyebrows and she didnt want that. Well neither did my husband and I but she didn't care. After calling the cops umpteen times she still had the gall to call or text my husband when she wanted to sneak her way back into my life, as she always eventually did. She is not stupid. But it didn't occur to her that maybe he loathed her for what she had done with the cops...haha. He did! Anyhow (I guess I still have some venting left...sorry) these crazy calls were never addressed with my sister. If I tried to bring up anything that bothered me, she would turn it on me. Yet I had to apologize for what she felt I did to her. Once, when I told her the Gods honest truth, she sneered ( and she DID sneer) "I will NEVER believe that." But I had told her the truth and she just did t like it (shrug). Anyhow, writing down the truth, and it is all true, makes me see that this person was more than just abusive to me... That she would have happily send me to to jail to shut me up. Thankfully, there is Freedom of Speech. I know things about her, especially financially, that could interfer with her cash flow. It would not be hard for me to find a way to contact the person she is cheating with evidence since it relates to our inheritance and we both got the same amount. Funny, I am not doing it. I think she would have. But I am in a better place now and look forward to Jumper's graduation and party next week. Plus after six weeks of interviewing on and off, Jumper is very close to being hired for the county jail job! Big salary, and benefits as long as a roll of toilet paper and close enough to us that she can meet us for lunch! In the end, my real family is what and who is important. I thank everybody for listening. "This too shall pass." [/QUOTE]
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