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Peace after trauma. Can you share your secrets please?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731637" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thank you so much, dear Leafy.</p><p></p><p>This is an update. I just had a two hour session with my spiritual (not religious) therapist. I learned so much. I totally believe we pick our people for our spirt's learning and evolution. I was able to tell him EVERYTHING I lived through and then we focused my sister. I spent a long time explaining our troubled history.</p><p></p><p>He told me that my sister is my hardest lesson (he felt she is narc or borderline by my description of her behavior and maybe it's true) but I definitely put up with a lot from her, and her behavior was very odd. Sadly I am still emotionally hanging on to my sister, which is not helpful toy growth.</p><p></p><p>The cure to this problem is plain old fashion acceptance. She is what she is. She did what she did. She does what she does. My challenge is to ACCEPT all she did and let it go. I think this is powerful and very life changing advice. Acceptance. What a great word! I am feeling very empowered now and need to do the hard work of acceptance and letting go. I feel more distant and accepting already.</p><p></p><p>Hopefully it will not be hard to keep it up. This is holding back my soul's growth and I want to keep doing the work I came here to do.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for listening. Thanks ALOT for listening. Love to you all. You are amazing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731637, member: 1550"] Thank you so much, dear Leafy. This is an update. I just had a two hour session with my spiritual (not religious) therapist. I learned so much. I totally believe we pick our people for our spirt's learning and evolution. I was able to tell him EVERYTHING I lived through and then we focused my sister. I spent a long time explaining our troubled history. He told me that my sister is my hardest lesson (he felt she is narc or borderline by my description of her behavior and maybe it's true) but I definitely put up with a lot from her, and her behavior was very odd. Sadly I am still emotionally hanging on to my sister, which is not helpful toy growth. The cure to this problem is plain old fashion acceptance. She is what she is. She did what she did. She does what she does. My challenge is to ACCEPT all she did and let it go. I think this is powerful and very life changing advice. Acceptance. What a great word! I am feeling very empowered now and need to do the hard work of acceptance and letting go. I feel more distant and accepting already. Hopefully it will not be hard to keep it up. This is holding back my soul's growth and I want to keep doing the work I came here to do. Thanks for listening. Thanks ALOT for listening. Love to you all. You are amazing. [/QUOTE]
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