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Peace after trauma. Can you share your secrets please?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731875" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks, wiser! I will look them up. I LOVE your gravity issue and agree that forgiveness and acceptance is best.</p><p></p><p>I forgive my sister. I don't think she feels she did anything wrong, so I can't really hold her accountable. And I accept that this is how she is. She truly believes what she says as I believe what I say.</p><p></p><p>The truth is, I am not doing myself or my energy or others any good to hang onto what I can't change and I feel much better now. I will never see her again in this lifetime so it does no good to care. Perhaps the reason, at least on my part, for choosing her as a sister was to learn the lesson of acceptance. This can be hard for me, but I am doing it. It has been a bit bumpy, but I am getting it. I am learning I can love and accept from afar. </p><p></p><p>On the positive, I am making myself a spiritual box to travel with so that I have soothing, comfortable, familiar, uplufting items when my husband and I move and then travel. I saw this idea online and love it. The cards would be perfect for that. Am going to look them up as soon as I get off my phone.</p><p></p><p>Wiser, do you find any particular candle scents calming? I have some scents I like but would love to try more.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Thank you, wiser.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731875, member: 1550"] Thanks, wiser! I will look them up. I LOVE your gravity issue and agree that forgiveness and acceptance is best. I forgive my sister. I don't think she feels she did anything wrong, so I can't really hold her accountable. And I accept that this is how she is. She truly believes what she says as I believe what I say. The truth is, I am not doing myself or my energy or others any good to hang onto what I can't change and I feel much better now. I will never see her again in this lifetime so it does no good to care. Perhaps the reason, at least on my part, for choosing her as a sister was to learn the lesson of acceptance. This can be hard for me, but I am doing it. It has been a bit bumpy, but I am getting it. I am learning I can love and accept from afar. On the positive, I am making myself a spiritual box to travel with so that I have soothing, comfortable, familiar, uplufting items when my husband and I move and then travel. I saw this idea online and love it. The cards would be perfect for that. Am going to look them up as soon as I get off my phone. Wiser, do you find any particular candle scents calming? I have some scents I like but would love to try more. Thank you, wiser. [/QUOTE]
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