I'm sorry you took what was said as negative. I hope you find the help you need, if not here then through your support group. I've been here ten years now. I've heard it all, or at least most of it. I apologize if I offended you. Like we always say here, take what you want and leave the rest behind. If you think everyone will always agree with you you are wrong, as evidenced by the fact that you disagree with how I have handled things. We all do the best we can. Sometimes we express support that is not taken in the way it was offered.
I did not in any way mean to infer that you should not protect your other child. Good lord of course you should. If the only way to do that is to have the other child removed, so be it.
Nancy
