Thank you, Copa. The stressful, anxiety ramping posts that I referred to, were the ones on this current pg about how he should not be provided with a car. There were several of them, you can read over them if you'd like.
I appreciate & need the firm advice you refer to, on what I should or shouldn't be doing re: son. I can handle that. That is not what I was talking about in my last post.
What I cannot handle, are posters leaving drama posts re: things which I have no control over. A car that HE owns. Of course I worry about that. What can I do to change it? Nothing. What do the drama posts that almost scream (my perception) 'omg he shouldn't have a car...as this this & this could happen!' do? They significantly add to my already overwhelming worry/anxiety.
I need advice, not drama & more reasons given to me to worry MORE than I already am. I'm here trying to keep my head above water.
PS & by the way: as I was just writing this, son called me yelling at me..accusing me of telling his local older (26) cousin (sober now for 15mos) that he relapsed. I did no such thing & so maybe you can see how much stress I'm under. I felt like vomiting earlier this evening.
thank you for your kindness, Copa.
