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<blockquote data-quote="rebelson" data-source="post: 677179" data-attributes="member: 19966"><p>Thank you, Copa. The stressful, anxiety ramping posts that I referred to, were the ones on this current pg about how he should not be provided with a car. There were several of them, you can read over them if you'd like.</p><p></p><p>I appreciate & need the firm advice you refer to, on what I should or shouldn't be doing re: son. I can handle that. That is not what I was talking about in my last post.</p><p></p><p>What I cannot handle, are posters leaving drama posts re: things which I have no control over. A car that HE owns. Of course I worry about that. What can I do to change it? Nothing. What do the drama posts that almost scream (my perception) 'omg he shouldn't have a car...as this this & this could happen!' do? They significantly add to my already overwhelming worry/anxiety.</p><p></p><p>I need advice, not drama & more reasons given to me to worry MORE than I already am. I'm here trying to keep my head above water.</p><p></p><p>PS & by the way: as I was just writing this, son called me yelling at me..accusing me of telling his local older (26) cousin (sober now for 15mos) that he relapsed. I did no such thing & so maybe you can see how much stress I'm under. I felt like vomiting earlier this evening.</p><p></p><p>thank you for your kindness, Copa.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rebelson, post: 677179, member: 19966"] Thank you, Copa. The stressful, anxiety ramping posts that I referred to, were the ones on this current pg about how he should not be provided with a car. There were several of them, you can read over them if you'd like. I appreciate & need the firm advice you refer to, on what I should or shouldn't be doing re: son. I can handle that. That is not what I was talking about in my last post. What I cannot handle, are posters leaving drama posts re: things which I have no control over. A car that HE owns. Of course I worry about that. What can I do to change it? Nothing. What do the drama posts that almost scream (my perception) 'omg he shouldn't have a car...as this this & this could happen!' do? They significantly add to my already overwhelming worry/anxiety. I need advice, not drama & more reasons given to me to worry MORE than I already am. I'm here trying to keep my head above water. PS & by the way: as I was just writing this, son called me yelling at me..accusing me of telling his local older (26) cousin (sober now for 15mos) that he relapsed. I did no such thing & so maybe you can see how much stress I'm under. I felt like vomiting earlier this evening. thank you for your kindness, Copa. [/QUOTE]
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