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petrified for 23yo son..
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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 690607" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>Yes, this is what they do. I remember son last fall, raging on the phone at me because I wouldn't give him money. He said, if you want me to live tonight, give me the money, it's for real Mom. Evidently he owed some money to drug dealers. He raged on and on. Then 3 days later he calls and acts like nothing happened. This had been a pattern for the last 16 years. They want it, you better give it, or else you can expect the raging and the silent treatment as punishment.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry for your tears. Cry on, move through those feelings. Grieve. I have been there too- back in January I thought I would crack from the heaviness of the worry and the mourning. I had to let him go- and let God take the wheel. When I did that- I felt lot of peace. Because there are just things in life that are out of our control, especially when it comes to our Adult Children who seem hell bent on destroying their lives.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 690607, member: 19951"] Yes, this is what they do. I remember son last fall, raging on the phone at me because I wouldn't give him money. He said, if you want me to live tonight, give me the money, it's for real Mom. Evidently he owed some money to drug dealers. He raged on and on. Then 3 days later he calls and acts like nothing happened. This had been a pattern for the last 16 years. They want it, you better give it, or else you can expect the raging and the silent treatment as punishment. I'm sorry for your tears. Cry on, move through those feelings. Grieve. I have been there too- back in January I thought I would crack from the heaviness of the worry and the mourning. I had to let him go- and let God take the wheel. When I did that- I felt lot of peace. Because there are just things in life that are out of our control, especially when it comes to our Adult Children who seem hell bent on destroying their lives. [/QUOTE]
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