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Please help - 28 yr old son destroying things in house
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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 714455" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Agree with the other responses you've received. Your son is a danger to himself and others when he acts out in the way you describe. If he cannot control himself, he needs to get help so that he CAN control himself. That is not something you can do for him, and the objective evidence (his behavior while living with you) seems to prove that allowing him to live with you isn't helping either one of you. </p><p></p><p>He is an adult, and you can't save him from his demons, unfortunately. He's got to make that choice. He needs to get sick and tired of being sick and tired.</p><p></p><p>Unless he has been declared mentally incompetent by a court and you've been named his guardian, he would be better served figuring things out on his own. Check out Al-Anon and Codependents Anonymous, they help immensely with loving detachment, and there are even online and email meetings available. </p><p></p><p>Best of luck. I hope your son can find peace. He will have to find it on his own, without help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 714455, member: 13303"] Agree with the other responses you've received. Your son is a danger to himself and others when he acts out in the way you describe. If he cannot control himself, he needs to get help so that he CAN control himself. That is not something you can do for him, and the objective evidence (his behavior while living with you) seems to prove that allowing him to live with you isn't helping either one of you. He is an adult, and you can't save him from his demons, unfortunately. He's got to make that choice. He needs to get sick and tired of being sick and tired. Unless he has been declared mentally incompetent by a court and you've been named his guardian, he would be better served figuring things out on his own. Check out Al-Anon and Codependents Anonymous, they help immensely with loving detachment, and there are even online and email meetings available. Best of luck. I hope your son can find peace. He will have to find it on his own, without help. [/QUOTE]
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