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Please help me with my 20 year old granddaughter.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 705388" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your granddaughter may have disabilities beyond ADzHD and anxiety. I see red flags for possible high functioning autism. She can choose to get tested but at her age you can't force it. But you don't need to let her live with you.</p><p></p><p>Gender Identity Disorder is real. Being a lesbian is also not a choice. To judge her for these issues due to lack of understanding or rigid religious beliefs in my opinion is unfair. She is who she is and you love her as she is or else it's conditional love only. </p><p></p><p>She could use therapy to deal with feeling as if she is a man, which is stressful alone. But valid. Sounds as if she has never felt like a female. This is not a moral issue. It is a very real challenge.</p><p></p><p>I hope you can do what feels good to you. And you can make suggestions to your granddaughter but you can't force her to do or be anything or anyone. She is not your other grandchildren.</p><p></p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 705388, member: 1550"] Your granddaughter may have disabilities beyond ADzHD and anxiety. I see red flags for possible high functioning autism. She can choose to get tested but at her age you can't force it. But you don't need to let her live with you. Gender Identity Disorder is real. Being a lesbian is also not a choice. To judge her for these issues due to lack of understanding or rigid religious beliefs in my opinion is unfair. She is who she is and you love her as she is or else it's conditional love only. She could use therapy to deal with feeling as if she is a man, which is stressful alone. But valid. Sounds as if she has never felt like a female. This is not a moral issue. It is a very real challenge. I hope you can do what feels good to you. And you can make suggestions to your granddaughter but you can't force her to do or be anything or anyone. She is not your other grandchildren. Hugs for your hurting heart. [/QUOTE]
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