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<blockquote data-quote="Sam3" data-source="post: 720082" data-attributes="member: 19290"><p>You first.</p><p></p><p>Stay clean. </p><p></p><p>Whatever it takes, even if it means distancing yourself. Then you may be able to judge her manipulation for what it is. I'm sorry that she has gone "there," but their cleverness, drug-seeking and shame avoidance make them experts at exploiting weaknesses. </p><p></p><p>I have many times looked back at my efforts and thought that maybe I was fighting dirty. Guilt tripping, catastrophizing etc. The moral high ground is a tough place to climb to, but it's essential in this relationship and in the war for their souls.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sam3, post: 720082, member: 19290"] You first. Stay clean. Whatever it takes, even if it means distancing yourself. Then you may be able to judge her manipulation for what it is. I'm sorry that she has gone "there," but their cleverness, drug-seeking and shame avoidance make them experts at exploiting weaknesses. I have many times looked back at my efforts and thought that maybe I was fighting dirty. Guilt tripping, catastrophizing etc. The moral high ground is a tough place to climb to, but it's essential in this relationship and in the war for their souls. [/QUOTE]
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