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Please help with our decision to bail 35 yr old son out of jail..
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<blockquote data-quote="PennyFromTheBlock" data-source="post: 636775" data-attributes="member: 18271"><p>I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I've not had to deal with my son going to jail, but I've prepared myself for it. I cannot tell you what to do- but I do want to implore you to listen to the voice that resides in your head- your gut instinct. I suspect it's telling you NO- do not bail him out. I suspect this only because you wouldn't be hesitating otherwise. I'm learning to deal with mine and detach and let him fall on his face for the choices HE makes. If you want someone to tell you it's ok to NOT bail him out- I will tell you it is ok. </p><p></p><p>Your health and well being are paramount here- you can't help him if you are down and out in ANY capacity. You can pray for him (if you believe in that), you can think of him and tell him you love him. But you indicate you don't have the money for this. Don't put yourself in a hole over decisions he has made. </p><p></p><p>I'll be thinking of you. (((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PennyFromTheBlock, post: 636775, member: 18271"] I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I've not had to deal with my son going to jail, but I've prepared myself for it. I cannot tell you what to do- but I do want to implore you to listen to the voice that resides in your head- your gut instinct. I suspect it's telling you NO- do not bail him out. I suspect this only because you wouldn't be hesitating otherwise. I'm learning to deal with mine and detach and let him fall on his face for the choices HE makes. If you want someone to tell you it's ok to NOT bail him out- I will tell you it is ok. Your health and well being are paramount here- you can't help him if you are down and out in ANY capacity. You can pray for him (if you believe in that), you can think of him and tell him you love him. But you indicate you don't have the money for this. Don't put yourself in a hole over decisions he has made. I'll be thinking of you. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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