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<blockquote data-quote="jaeco" data-source="post: 290525" data-attributes="member: 1576"><p>I think your suggestions are good ones. I can't even think clearly about this anymore. I have been to therapy on and off for years but the older I get the more toll this situation is taking. I hate to be so needy...but any suggestions on setting boundaries re the money situation while I'm tapering off and we apply for disability? It's so difficult in the circular conversations with her and she gets me at every turn. I've thought about giving her some sort of allowance until disability comes through, IF it comes through. She can be very disrespectful and unfortunately this is a situation that I have allowed to continue for years. I was told when I divorced her father that she was developmentally impaired and I stupidly thought that well, how bad is it that when you're 25 you act like you're 20?!? I always hung onto that and thought she'd *outgrow* all of this...and now I wake up at her age and see it for what it is I guess.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jaeco, post: 290525, member: 1576"] I think your suggestions are good ones. I can't even think clearly about this anymore. I have been to therapy on and off for years but the older I get the more toll this situation is taking. I hate to be so needy...but any suggestions on setting boundaries re the money situation while I'm tapering off and we apply for disability? It's so difficult in the circular conversations with her and she gets me at every turn. I've thought about giving her some sort of allowance until disability comes through, IF it comes through. She can be very disrespectful and unfortunately this is a situation that I have allowed to continue for years. I was told when I divorced her father that she was developmentally impaired and I stupidly thought that well, how bad is it that when you're 25 you act like you're 20?!? I always hung onto that and thought she'd *outgrow* all of this...and now I wake up at her age and see it for what it is I guess. [/QUOTE]
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