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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 290761"><p>I would hesitate (big time) to take off from work unless it is a dire emergency. Consider telling her that from 9-5 or whatever hours you work are totally off limits with reference to her coming to the house. Additionally, you might tell her that other times she is only to come over if you guys agree upon it first. AND don't let her come over before work hours, 'cause she might not leave at the proper time. If she refuses to "play along," then don't answer the door when she comes over. Let her bang on the door until she get tired and moves on. If it gets ugly, then call the police and have her escorted off your property. Buy yourself ear plugs. You can offer some help when and where it is appropriate. Don't ever let her hurt you. She can take it or leave it. If she doesn't want the help you provide (YOUR terms) then she can make her own way the world without your help. Her choice, not yours. You, can not be abused. No one deserves that. You have choices, she has choices. Chose to do this differently. Protect yourself. Lock the door. Put on some nice music. Set up some boundaries. Read the detachment stuff!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 290761"] I would hesitate (big time) to take off from work unless it is a dire emergency. Consider telling her that from 9-5 or whatever hours you work are totally off limits with reference to her coming to the house. Additionally, you might tell her that other times she is only to come over if you guys agree upon it first. AND don't let her come over before work hours, 'cause she might not leave at the proper time. If she refuses to "play along," then don't answer the door when she comes over. Let her bang on the door until she get tired and moves on. If it gets ugly, then call the police and have her escorted off your property. Buy yourself ear plugs. You can offer some help when and where it is appropriate. Don't ever let her hurt you. She can take it or leave it. If she doesn't want the help you provide (YOUR terms) then she can make her own way the world without your help. Her choice, not yours. You, can not be abused. No one deserves that. You have choices, she has choices. Chose to do this differently. Protect yourself. Lock the door. Put on some nice music. Set up some boundaries. Read the detachment stuff! [/QUOTE]
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