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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 448927" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>He does have a gift for writing, that is clear. I don't know that visiting him is wise for YOU, LMS. I am worried about YOUR mental health far more than his. Do NOT let this take you down that road again.</p><p></p><p>The only thing that kept popping into my head was the image of when he was in your house on his knees with his hands up on your belly begging for money - that surely you would give because he came from right there. You told us about that and it was just a few weeks or so before he ended up in jail this time. I would send a letter, but tell him to lay off the pity-me bit. </p><p></p><p>You DO have a stronger bond with him and tend to take his side against the world, even when common sense tells you that it is NOT the best for him or you. DId you or did you not tell him you would NOT go visit him? I thought you told him you wouldn't go see him if he was in jail. If you said this, then you MUST NOT NOT NOT go to visit. Send a letter, even one a day if you must.</p><p></p><p>Go to alanon instead of the jail. He NEEDS to sit there all alone without Mommy to the rescue. He NEEDS to know you will do what you said - and not visit the wya you said. This is a test - and if you give in he will NEVER stop pushing at the limits with you.</p><p></p><p>If I remember it wrong and you didn't say that you wouldn't visit, then go if you feel you must. But I thought you told him you would not visit him in jail. I know that it is stress you really don't need. </p><p></p><p>If he has the energy to manipulate you this way then he has mroe than enough energy to be a man and figure out a way through this. </p><p></p><p>Sending many hugs (((((hugs))))) Sorry for not calling - been having daily headaches and it is kicking my tail. I get a nerve block in my head on Fri that should take care of them. I am thrilled because these are awful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 448927, member: 1233"] He does have a gift for writing, that is clear. I don't know that visiting him is wise for YOU, LMS. I am worried about YOUR mental health far more than his. Do NOT let this take you down that road again. The only thing that kept popping into my head was the image of when he was in your house on his knees with his hands up on your belly begging for money - that surely you would give because he came from right there. You told us about that and it was just a few weeks or so before he ended up in jail this time. I would send a letter, but tell him to lay off the pity-me bit. You DO have a stronger bond with him and tend to take his side against the world, even when common sense tells you that it is NOT the best for him or you. DId you or did you not tell him you would NOT go visit him? I thought you told him you wouldn't go see him if he was in jail. If you said this, then you MUST NOT NOT NOT go to visit. Send a letter, even one a day if you must. Go to alanon instead of the jail. He NEEDS to sit there all alone without Mommy to the rescue. He NEEDS to know you will do what you said - and not visit the wya you said. This is a test - and if you give in he will NEVER stop pushing at the limits with you. If I remember it wrong and you didn't say that you wouldn't visit, then go if you feel you must. But I thought you told him you would not visit him in jail. I know that it is stress you really don't need. If he has the energy to manipulate you this way then he has mroe than enough energy to be a man and figure out a way through this. Sending many hugs (((((hugs))))) Sorry for not calling - been having daily headaches and it is kicking my tail. I get a nerve block in my head on Fri that should take care of them. I am thrilled because these are awful. [/QUOTE]
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