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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 427324" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>my explanation for behaviors won't be poor choices but rather lacking skills, insight , competence, support , foresight etc.</p><p>This type of explanation will generate interventions which will go a long way to solve problems - working with kids</p><p>explanations like - poor motivation, bad choices leads to ' doing to kids ' - to make them wanna ....</p><p></p><p>and in the real world - people don't have the power to control people as they used to - in the real world you need good social skills to problem solve and collaborate</p><p></p><p>Personal life coaching , managing people is all about first moving forward , finding a vision and then dealing with the past.</p><p></p><p>2/3 of inmates are at least in the 2nd prison terms , so consequences don't motivate people , maybe in the short term</p><p></p><p>you need to get to the person so he changes from the inside.</p><p></p><p>the carrot and stick wont do that for you </p><p></p><p>here is a you tube - i mentioned the idea earlier</p><p>[MEDIA=youtube]H75gbkLvIRA[/MEDIA]</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 427324, member: 10"] Hi, my explanation for behaviors won't be poor choices but rather lacking skills, insight , competence, support , foresight etc. This type of explanation will generate interventions which will go a long way to solve problems - working with kids explanations like - poor motivation, bad choices leads to ' doing to kids ' - to make them wanna .... and in the real world - people don't have the power to control people as they used to - in the real world you need good social skills to problem solve and collaborate Personal life coaching , managing people is all about first moving forward , finding a vision and then dealing with the past. 2/3 of inmates are at least in the 2nd prison terms , so consequences don't motivate people , maybe in the short term you need to get to the person so he changes from the inside. the carrot and stick wont do that for you here is a you tube - i mentioned the idea earlier [MEDIA=youtube]H75gbkLvIRA[/MEDIA] Allan [/QUOTE]
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