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<blockquote data-quote="Jennie" data-source="post: 366526"><p>Thank you for all of the responses. I agree with everyone, especially that the tying up and "torturing" torturing should stop, pretending is ok though and it should be in within an adult. I will pursue this further and keep you posted as i dig more into this. </p><p></p><p>I want to try and respond to everything, first everyone said great advice. Marg, do you have a physchology degree? That was very interesting what you wrote? Midwestmom, you said you asked your fourteen year old daughter if this was normal and she said no, i think that makes sense. Do you by chance have sons? While both genders played in this mostly boys were involved, I dont know if that makes it a normal gender thing or not. For those who responded, please just ask your other kids if this is normal and just post a quick response as to what they said. I just wnat to know how many think it is unnormal. </p><p></p><p>I am little confused about a sexual tone to this, how would that be? I do agree with what someone said about sex being about power not about sex, although i think it is a little of both. I have formed this opinion years ago in the earlier 90s about a case i saw on America's Most Wanted. To make a long story short, a woman was driving early in the morning runs out of gas, walks to a gas station but before she makes it is grabbed by a couple and rapped. Afterwards she was bound and gagged and later found hobbling near a road. I remember this somewhat well as this was scary at the time being younger (around 16 or 17 at the time) so that is true of it being about power, but i think it is about power sex if you know what i mean.</p><p></p><p>But yes i agree with what was said about having a great game, i don't think any fathers or mothers are in the service, possibly cousins. It may be part of all of these video games, etc. </p><p></p><p>As someone also said how is it different than cowboys and Indians, or even cops and robbers, my question is have kids always acted this way and the way information travels on the internet does it just seem that is happens more? These are just some thoughts. I did set down some of the ground rules and will keep a better watch, no tying up, locking, tickling. My daughter said that the tickling part came from an old Teenage Mutant Ninja turtles cartoon where hostages were tickling for information, still doesn't make it right. After doing a few more googling about excessive tickling, that makes me think of other things that I may post in the future.</p><p></p><p>Thank God for the internet and being able to share information like this. I love having discussions like this to help make decisions better. </p><p></p><p>Jennie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jennie, post: 366526"] Thank you for all of the responses. I agree with everyone, especially that the tying up and "torturing" torturing should stop, pretending is ok though and it should be in within an adult. I will pursue this further and keep you posted as i dig more into this. I want to try and respond to everything, first everyone said great advice. Marg, do you have a physchology degree? That was very interesting what you wrote? Midwestmom, you said you asked your fourteen year old daughter if this was normal and she said no, i think that makes sense. Do you by chance have sons? While both genders played in this mostly boys were involved, I dont know if that makes it a normal gender thing or not. For those who responded, please just ask your other kids if this is normal and just post a quick response as to what they said. I just wnat to know how many think it is unnormal. I am little confused about a sexual tone to this, how would that be? I do agree with what someone said about sex being about power not about sex, although i think it is a little of both. I have formed this opinion years ago in the earlier 90s about a case i saw on America's Most Wanted. To make a long story short, a woman was driving early in the morning runs out of gas, walks to a gas station but before she makes it is grabbed by a couple and rapped. Afterwards she was bound and gagged and later found hobbling near a road. I remember this somewhat well as this was scary at the time being younger (around 16 or 17 at the time) so that is true of it being about power, but i think it is about power sex if you know what i mean. But yes i agree with what was said about having a great game, i don't think any fathers or mothers are in the service, possibly cousins. It may be part of all of these video games, etc. As someone also said how is it different than cowboys and Indians, or even cops and robbers, my question is have kids always acted this way and the way information travels on the internet does it just seem that is happens more? These are just some thoughts. I did set down some of the ground rules and will keep a better watch, no tying up, locking, tickling. My daughter said that the tickling part came from an old Teenage Mutant Ninja turtles cartoon where hostages were tickling for information, still doesn't make it right. After doing a few more googling about excessive tickling, that makes me think of other things that I may post in the future. Thank God for the internet and being able to share information like this. I love having discussions like this to help make decisions better. Jennie [/QUOTE]
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