My heart is hurting so much for all of you. This is something all of us fear so much. I lost my son to a car accident. He wasn't driving but he made the stupid decision to be in that car in that situation. I have a daughter who can't seem to conquer her depression and love of drugs, and her son who has ADHD, anxiety, and a tendency for depression, and he's only 11. Miracles happen, they do, and let's hope that your son still has his mission here to fulfill and he will get the chance to do it.