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Probably worst day of my life...
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 735466" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Your father is being dramatic and unfair. How on Earth are you signing his death warrant by making him face the natural consequences a young man faces when he not only breaks the law but refuses to follow court orders? Jail will not kill him, if he chooses to go. He chooses to go if he refuses to listen to the Judge. He has a choice. He sounds very defiant and entitled.</p><p></p><p>Perhaps Dad would like to house him, drive him around and keep him on the straight parh ( as if he could!) Maybe you should find other people to help you out rather than Dad and Mom. What your dad said was meant to scare you into doing what he wants you to do regarding your son. You don't need or deserve that.</p><p></p><p>Since you son can't drive I assume his license was taken away due to drugs or a DUI. Whatever is going on, I am sorry. You will talk to many people here who know exactly what you are going through. I made my drug abusing daughter leave when she abused drugs and would not accept help. I had two littles and they were scared of her and we were fed up. She didn't die. She quit drugs! It has been 12 years or so. She is doing great. Your son can turn it around too if he wants to.</p><p></p><p>Please remember to take care of yourself and don't let anyone bully you, not even your parents. You need to teach your son to be the man he is, not your slave, driving him around when he doesn't want to go. You are doing all you can, just like all of us do or did.</p><p></p><p>Love and light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 735466, member: 1550"] Your father is being dramatic and unfair. How on Earth are you signing his death warrant by making him face the natural consequences a young man faces when he not only breaks the law but refuses to follow court orders? Jail will not kill him, if he chooses to go. He chooses to go if he refuses to listen to the Judge. He has a choice. He sounds very defiant and entitled. Perhaps Dad would like to house him, drive him around and keep him on the straight parh ( as if he could!) Maybe you should find other people to help you out rather than Dad and Mom. What your dad said was meant to scare you into doing what he wants you to do regarding your son. You don't need or deserve that. Since you son can't drive I assume his license was taken away due to drugs or a DUI. Whatever is going on, I am sorry. You will talk to many people here who know exactly what you are going through. I made my drug abusing daughter leave when she abused drugs and would not accept help. I had two littles and they were scared of her and we were fed up. She didn't die. She quit drugs! It has been 12 years or so. She is doing great. Your son can turn it around too if he wants to. Please remember to take care of yourself and don't let anyone bully you, not even your parents. You need to teach your son to be the man he is, not your slave, driving him around when he doesn't want to go. You are doing all you can, just like all of us do or did. Love and light! [/QUOTE]
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